The apartment building next to my house is only about 6 feet away from my kitchen window. My window over the sink is high enough to just look over the concrete privicy wall between the buildings. So when I do dishes I face the sliding glass doors into the apartment next door. The sliding glass door faces the wall and seem to be the only windows in the tiny apt.
I have seen my neighbor naked/dressing several times. He does have a privacy wall and does not face public property(so not considered indecent exposure). He is very nice and kind of cute, decent body with a little extra weight. But i feel bad cuz he has no natural light if he shuts the blinds and has no other room to chance since it is a bachelor style apt.
What should I do? I am not offended really. Would you say something to him? If so what? Is it wrong to just let it go and keep seeing him like that?
I am not intrested in hooking up with him and I dont enjoy it but I am not grosssed out by it either.
2007-06-19 07:11:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Home & Garden ➔ Other - Home & Garden
oh.. and one time I noticed him late one night in the dark room "pleasuring himself". I guess all guys do that in there own room.
2007-06-19 07:23:19 · update #1
as long as itdoesn*t bother you one way or the other, I wouldn*t say anything; On the other hand, if yu think he may be embarrassed to be seen like that maybe a note in his mailbox would suffice. you could always say a friend pointed it out to you and you thought he would want to know.
Or maybe he does know and isn*t as nice as you think he is.
2007-06-19 07:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by llittle mama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the one peeking into his windows, so that makes you a pervert LOL. Honestly if it doesn't bother you, why are you asking???
If you can see him, he likely knows it by now. Either put up your own blinds or enjoy his show. Do the dishes nude if you please. Spill soapy sponge water all over yourself.
When I was in college, one of the girls in the sorority across from my fraternity house used to put on shows for us. She loved the attention and clearly knew we could see her. Some people just like to be seen....and appearently some like to watch.
Oh, another great idea, make signs for him advising him on what to wear or do. Hang the signs in your kitchen window, see if he follows the instructions.
Either keep watching or don't. Either way live and let live.
2007-06-19 07:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by DH1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it go. You will be opening a can of worms it you say anything. Perhaps you could hang a blind or cafe cur tin so you obstruct your view. or get a dishwasher. Believe me you do not want to bring this up.
2007-06-19 07:17:33 · answer #3 · answered by careermom18 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief darling get yourself a shade of some sort..........I don't think you would have enough dishes to wash to spend much time there>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Maybe a pretty shade with designs Maybe the guy does these things because he knows you can see him.....If you told him I don't think he would stop..............
2007-06-19 07:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by dorton girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore it, and when you see him pull the blind on your window, then you won't feel like you are staring, and just incase he would see you watching him it may create a little uneasiness
2007-06-19 07:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take pictures and send them to the office.
2007-06-19 07:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by surffsav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rolf........... Close the blinds when you wash the dishes. or Invite him over you never know what it will turn into.
2007-06-19 10:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go......
As long as he is not offending you.....
2007-06-19 07:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋