i personally do not enjoy listening to a guy talk about seeing me or someone else nude. I also am extremely annoyed by sex jokes. Do all guys think this way?? Is there hope left in an ugly world for just one gentleman???
2007-06-19 06:11:34 · 3 answers · asked by wormwoodkid 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Here's the deal..."Perversion" is defined as..."A deviation from normal behavior or practice"...Therefore, if "all or most" guys think or talk this way, it cannot be perverse...
In fact, one could easily assume the reason that most guys think and talk about sex all the time is because they believe its whats expected of them because popular culture and the media both portray men as being sexually obsessed, just turn on your TV.
Women have other priorities...and men will often see those things that women focus on as "boring" or "pointless" but they do not usually carry the nearly criminal connotations that men get accused of as "perverse."
I personally do not generally talk about women in the way that you describe, because I think its inappropriate, and do not particularly like to discuss sexual matters even amongst other men...But do I think in a perverted manner?
Hmmmmmm...
What do you fantasize about? Do you think of what men might say or do to you? Or are you bereft of any sexual thoughts, or maybe you have them but never admit them or discuss them...Men are visually oriented, and so they are also visually stimulated. Its not perverse to think of what a woman looks like, any more than its perverse for a woman to think about the way she would like a man to ACT (i.e. not talking about her nude...) It is, however, kind of rude to talk to her that way...
2007-06-19 07:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by Dr Bob 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i'm not, i only say nice things.
2007-06-22 05:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look no further than myself.
2007-06-19 07:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by catalyist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋