How many of you people have suffered from abuse? It doesnt matter what kind. I want to hear how you have dealt with it.How many years did you suffer? Who did it? How did it change you?
2007-06-19 04:58:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well I was molested when I was younger and my mom never knew about til I tried to commit suicide when I was about 19. It was hard to deal with because I kept it in since I was like 7. It was my mom best friend who boyfriend that molested me. He only touched me but nothing else. Thank God. I was always moody and mad at other people and myself. I felt gross. I'm not gay never had gay thoughts. That doesn't happen to everyone that was molested. I think I am very blessed to have not followed that path and hurt someone else that way. Most people that have had my case they turn around and do that to someone else or porn or just really basically go the rest of there lives not having respect for others or themselves. I had to go to a lot of counseling and group meetings of people that went through the same thing. So that helped me realize that I wasn't alone. And it help me become a better person. That's why I'm in the military now and have a beautiful girl who is soon to be my fiance. Life is just great. Church is the biggest help of them all though. Without God and prayer and my family and friends I really don't think I would be writing this right now. I hope this is help.
2007-06-19 05:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by Gemini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a child I was very very badly abused by my father. He used to beat both me, and my mom. He almost beat me to death on two occasions. I'm in my early 50's now. And it still affects me. I left home at age 16 because of it. I finished school on my own, while working full time as well. I made certain that my wife and kids never felt threatened by me, No one will ever hurt my wife, my kids or my grandkids the way I was hurt. And yes, it still affects me to this day.
2007-06-19 12:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by randy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad was mostly verbally abusive. I was molested at a Baptist Church Bible School when I was 6 years old. I went on to self abuse and abusive relationships. My oldest girl was molested by my cousin's husband. AND that's that no more abuse in our family. We have been counseled and we're moving on.
2007-06-19 12:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋