Ok , I don't often do serious but I need advise........... If you liked this guy and you both got on really well and he said he liked you also but wasn't good at commitment would you just chuck the towel in????
2007-06-18 23:02:25 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Or would you keep it casual at the risk of getting hurt..........
2007-06-18 23:05:47 · update #1
i would be tempted to chuck in the towel cos it hurts getting hurt ! But it depends what it is you want from a 'relationship', if you not wanting any committments yet then go for keeping it casual! very casual!
TIP. Always start as you mean to go on !
2007-06-19 00:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Honesty ♥.•´ `*.¸ ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends really on the guy.... If you both talk openly and honestly with each other, and are happy to have a none commitment relationship then cool.... You never know it may actually develop into a commited relationship.
On the other hand you could end up wasting your time on this guy and the guy of your dreams walks right on by with out you noticing!
You got to do what feels right to you hun..... Good luck and hope works out for you x
2007-06-18 23:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by Maria S © 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what I was after in a relationship at the time. But I would prob chuck the towel in if i felt i really liked him cos im not the type of person to have a casual realtionship....x
2007-06-18 23:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I've been there, done that and got the t-shirt. Basically we both really liked each other and kept going out with each other when we were out at the weekend. Then he asked me to his sisters wedding, one of her best friends spent the day telling me how he really liked me. But he still was saying he couldn't commit and couldn't see himself ever getting married. After about nine months of carrying on like this I decided I'd had enough. The next weekend we were out at the same club and sure enough he came over to me. This time I acted all cool and aloof didn't go with him and he was totally gobsmacked. We both got on with our own lives and both started dating other people. He got up to the same carry on. She's now had enough, he's all alone and I'm married to a fantastic guy.
Basically I think you need to give it a go for a while, you don't want regrets, then when he still hasn't changed move on. Your Mr Right is out there waiting for you.
2007-06-18 23:14:16 · answer #4 · answered by littlebear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Funny thing is my hubby said the same thing to me 26 years ago, guys worry to much that they will end up failing you or not live up to your expectations of them, if you really care about this guy you have to let him know, just give it a bit longer before you chuck the towel in, good luck.
2007-06-18 23:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much you like him .. are you willing to wait for him? i dont think you should just chuck the towel in straight away but go with it for a bit. if you really like this guy you might have to face having your heart broken.. otherwise you will never know.
2007-06-18 23:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by rothers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would come. I just need to know a month or so ahead so I can ask off from work. I would have gone to the get together in Washington DC, but they didn't give enough lead time. Great. I hope it works out!
2016-05-19 15:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...he's already making excuses.
he sounds like a great candidate for casual...it depends on what kind of relationship you're looking for right now. If you want soemthing long term I would suggest you let this guy go and keep looking - you can do better. But if he's hot and you just want to use him on weekends - yo go girl!
2007-06-18 23:05:29 · answer #8 · answered by Kat A. Tonic 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy what you have now and see how it goes from there, if it isn't any more committed in 6 months, go look for someone that will give you committment.
You won't know until you both try.
xxx
2007-06-18 23:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you really want out of it. Do you want commitment? If so then, yes, forget about it but I would say if it's a fling you're after then it looks like he's giving you the green light so go for it girl!
2007-06-18 23:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by ChocLover 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋