Sorry for so much detail but that's just how I am-talkitive (lol).When I get a spanking, it's usually from my mom. She calls me over to a couch or a chair (usually a couch). She tells me that she's gonna spank me for whatever I did wrong. Then she orders me across her lap. She grabs me around my back near my armpits and puts me where my butt is sticking straight up. By then, I'm usually about ready to cry and am complaining and asking her not to. She lectures me for tiny bit, then begins to slap my butt. She goes so slowly that my butt stings between each slap. After about five slaps, she stops and lectures me one more time then lets me up. I'm usually crying by then. If I do something really bad, then she has me pull down my jeans before her lap, then, while I'm over her lap, she pulls down my panties. Anyway... who else had a ritual when they got a spanking?
2007-06-18 22:50:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Many parents who spank go in for a ritual. It's a way of making the spanking effective and memorable without causing their child serious pain. The fact that your mom only needs to give you five spanks to have you crying shows how well it works. The emotional impact is far more powerful than any physical severity could be.
2007-06-18 23:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
There really was no preparing for it and we never knew with what we'd be spanked with or how many strikes we'd have to endure. The only thing that was the same every time was that we knew where we would receive our spankings and how (On the butt, Bare bottom) my mother would be the one spanking and she would instruct us to pull our pants & underwear down so she could spank us (If we didn't pull our pants and underwear down for her to spank us then she would do it for us) and that only made the spanking session longer and harder as in she would use more force for further disobeying her. We were then told to hold still or she would get us wherever it hit if we moved. Attempting to fight it by moving away or trying to block a strike with our hands would also increase the severity. For example, Each attempted block added another strike we would be receiving. Once she was done we would always be crying and she would simply tell us to pull our pants and underwear back up as it was finished and we went on with our day as if it never happened. We would by spanked most commonly with a leather belt or a plastic spatula until that was broken over one of our butts. She upgraded to a metal spatula after that. Also, We were punished with a dish serving spoon.
2016-08-23 12:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by Herbert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Britany ... it sounds like your mom is afraid to give you a real spanking!!
How do we guys get "prepared" for a spanking? Usually we're told: "okay, drop them; bend over and stay in place ".... Since we very soon are going to get a reminder of who is the boss and that we are not ... usually we don't even hesitate much -- sure don't want to argue and thus get extra!!
>How have your parents prepared you for a spanking?
I guess basically by saying something like "if you mess up, we'll tend to your butt". If (when) we mess up, we know there isn't much point in pleading; rather, we just prepare our own butts for the spankings. Probably more important, though, is preparing our minds for the butt spankings.
Just think what girls such as you, Britany, have missed!!!
Yeah, it HURTS at the time ... but really, it's no big deal.
2007-06-19 11:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by Jim 6 · 7⤊ 1⤋
I had at ritual when I got a spanking...what they would do is they would call me over to the couch or chair and then they would tell me what I had done wrong and then she asks me who did I want to spank me her or my dad....and I always said my dad because I am a daddy's girl and he would barely hit me...lol...So then she would give me a lecture after I got a spanking and I was like gosh just hush in my mind every time...Then my parents would always say it hurt me more than it hurts you...I would always say whatever!...lol..I hated getting spankings...Yes I am talkative too...I love telling stories about my past...lol...I hated every minute of it until my older brother would buck up to my parents and tell them to leave me alone!...then he would get a spanking and then I would cry because he got one because of me!...Sorry if it is too long!...I hope this helps you..Have a nice day!
2007-06-19 05:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by ITZchelseaRAWR<3 3 · 8⤊ 1⤋
The strangest thing most of my mind is telling me it's wrong but with your descrtion I'm kinda getting turned on a tad bit...Sorry, couldn't help myself! I don't have kids but I would probly just tell them what they did wrong, in a NICE tone of voice and slap them on the butt, how many depends on what was done.
2007-06-18 23:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
I never had a ritual, but my dad is 6'6'' so he had no trouble grabbing us around the waist and just smacking our butt.
2007-06-19 12:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by Squeegee Beckingheim :-) 5 · 6⤊ 1⤋
When my children were little(now 25,23, & 14) and they did something that I didn't approve of I would always ask them (after I counted to 10) if they wanted their spanking now or later. Well I'm happy to say that my children always said later and that day has never come. I was not spanked as a child and I have not spanked my children.
2007-06-19 02:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 8⤋
How ******* old are you? When my dad punishes me, he beats me! lol, you get lil slaps on you're butt. My dad several time threw things at me, including a metal bar one time. Hit my head pretty bad.
2007-06-19 04:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 6⤋
I think you have a spanking fetish - all these questions about being spanked. No one should be spanking you at 14 years old....it is kind of perverted.
2007-06-19 00:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 2⤊ 8⤋
HOW NOVEL! THE SPANKING STORIES ARE GETTING OLD AND TIRED.....TRY SOMETHING NEW!
2007-06-19 01:41:10 · answer #10 · answered by brxny2000 5 · 2⤊ 7⤋