Have you ever once regretted your marriage?

Answer 1

Hasn't everybody? Some days are really, really good and other days not so much. For me, my hormones have a lot to do with it.

Answer 2

Yes, I think everyone goes thru rough patches in their marriage. I've yet to see a "picture perfect" marriage. But I don't believe in giving up quickly! I was married for 15 years to my ex & the last several years he totally changed. He became mentally & slightly physically abusive. It started slowly & gradually got worse. Then he started cheating on me. And for 2 years I tried to hold it together while he was seeing this other girl until I finally had enough! I think I held on so long cuz we were 2gether since I was 15 & we had 2 kids & a house & lots of bills. Now, I thank god that other woman came into the picture or who knows I could still be w/ him today taking the abuse. I should have sent her a thank-you note!! lol Or a sympathy card, since she got stuck w/ him, but he was engaged to her for a year & one night came home w/ tatoo of another womans name on his chest. Now, he's married to her. What comes around goes around!!!! I don't suggest anyone doing what I did & I WON"T DO IT AGAIN!!! But if you're having marital problems that aren't that severe, hang in there. It happens to the best of us!!! Good luck!!

Answer 3

It's human nature to second guess ourselves. We should always do a gut-check now and then on what we are doing and who we are doing it with. Self-discipline and awareness.

It will keep yourselves true to each other. Always hold yourself and your spouse accountable for each others happiness. Usually marriage regret comes from a sense of dissatisfaction with another part of your life and it is easy to displace it into one of the most important relationships you have.

Marriage is unfortunately, not the same relationship as you have with your children. It is seldom unconditional. Society has made it "okay" for divorce and other life's failures such as bankruptcy. Unfortunate but true.

Answer 4

yes alot but then I picked myself up each time and tried to remember why and how I felt when I said yes. I learned later in life what you are thinking so are they maybe not at the same time but that thought has crossed their mind too.
Take a breather. Do something simple. Listen with a open mind and open heart get down to the bottom of what is really bothering you. Divorce is so easy these days and it would be sad to look back at it a few years later and say to yourself if only...

Answer 5

I am divorced and I deeply regret my marriage, but I do not regret for a second the beautiful daughter I have with him.

Answer 6

No. But we love each other enough to want to work things out. I have never loved anybody the way I love my husband. We hardly ever fight, I mean like really maybe twice a year. But we do sometimes irritate each other. But I have never regretted marrying him. And if I felt like that I wouldn't have married him.

Answer 7

never have i once regretted getting married..and you would think i would have those thoughts seeing as we got married before we even reached our twenties....however it isn't wrong to have those thoughts many people do...now its wrong if that all you think about. all those what ifs..you know?the mind can wonder a little as long as it comes back to reality with all the love a care that a marriage needs....

Answer 8

No.

But I married the right guy. We have a good marriage, and we work at it. I have never regretted it once.

Answer 9

We should ensure that we do not make a mistake. Later we have regret why we made that mistake.

I am sorry for your state, hope for the best to happen.

Answer 10

From the day I got married till today, I am regretting.

Answer 11

yes first marriage was a mess. the man was a total drunk and he cared for no one but himself. even with kids he was a monster and he loved oriental women. well i lived with him for 14 years and woke up and now divorced nearly 30 years. whooppe.