Is this selfishness or fickleness?
Either way, should you be with this person? (HYPOTHETICALLY speaking)
2007-06-18 19:17:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It is humanness, as I see it. We are meant to be attracted to many. That is the reason tthat we take wedding vows.
Stating, that even though I may be attracted to others I have chosen you as the one to be faithful to for the rest of my life.
2007-06-19 00:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by asmikeocsit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the inability to tell which you like more; it's neither fickle nor selfish, you just want to be happy.
If you are this person, think long and hard, and follow your heart.
If you're with this person, try to help them decide if you like, but accept any heartbreak as a life lesson and move on; you can do better!
2007-06-19 02:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by Kegan M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's possible.
it's neither selfishness nor fickleness.
make a list of pros and cons for each to help. stay away from both to see who you miss more. and who misses you more. girls would benefit from a r'ship where the guy loves/cares for her more than vice versa.
don't string both along. if need be, discard both and just stay friends. mutual friendship will help you 'evaluate' them better.
follow ur heart. don't start anything until u're clear on your decision. once u've decided, stick with it. good luck!
2007-06-19 02:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by jzcurious` 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's not being selfish...it's being human. But being attracted to them does not mean sleeping with them. Committment is a whole different thing.
2007-06-19 02:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its probably less possible to be only attracted to one. its completely natural. be with who you trust and can connect with more. seems like you need some time to work stuff through before jumping into a serious relationship
2007-06-19 02:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes,
I like two dudes at the same time and one ended up being my boyfriend
2007-06-19 02:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better question: is it possible to be attracted to only one person?
it is human nature.
2007-06-19 02:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by nigel v 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Attracted yes. But just love one and don't touch any others.
2007-06-19 02:22:20 · answer #8 · answered by Pancho 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very possible
2007-06-19 02:20:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!
2007-06-19 02:32:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋