2007-06-18 18:00:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
My first impulse would be to think he changed his mind, or saying it made him panic and want to back off. Then I'd wonder if he was sick, or someone in his family died, or something. After a while, the truth becomes obvious...and the things I think about a guy who would do that aren't very charitable.
If you did this...and she cares/cared for you...she's probably hurt, confused, and then angry after a while...and then will write you off. She may try to contact you, not because she's desparate, but just because she doesn't know which end is up now...
Basically, the longer you stop talking to her or seeing her, the more likely she'll decide this is a rejection, and she'll eventually pick up the pieces and go on (depending on how she felt about you before you bailed).
Question for YOU....why are you asking? Wanting to make amends?
What goes around comes around, my friend...even if you don't want to be with her again, you should man up and apologize for bailing. Be honest (and KIND) and let her know what happened, to the extent you're comfortable. Take the fallout as gracefully as you can. Remember, you were the one with the poor manners. Now's the time to show good manners.
Why? Well, if being decent isn't a good enough reason, then...Because....You never know when you'll fall for that cute little redhead you met at the supermarket, only to find out the gal you bailed on was her old college roommate.
2007-06-18 18:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by arjee63 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is one of the main things that guys do that are almost as confusing as what gals do to guys. It's terribly hurtful and shows weakness on the part of the guy who does it. I did it in eighth grade, but not since then.
She's going to be confused and hurt and will (understandably) hold it against men for at least a while. Why would a guy say that and then disappear?
2007-06-19 13:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I have a very low opinion of how men treat women in relationships, I would think: TMB - "Typical Male Behavior". But that's just me...
2007-06-19 08:43:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god that just happend to me! She'd be in shock. For about a day. then she would realize that she knew he was full of shi* in the first place. But thats just me and Im 46. I hope your not planning on doing that to somebody. Young girls get hurt easy and thats a punk *** piece of **** thing to do. And WHY would you in the first place????
2007-06-19 01:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by Willowjac 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cold feet
2007-06-22 19:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by "M" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If not gay, then you found some one else, or if you are playing games with her mind, then you should be castrated.
2007-06-20 13:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you had a horrible accident, or lied, or changed your mind, etc.
2007-06-19 01:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by undone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows the answer already.
2007-06-19 01:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by statman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she would think you are some sort of a "*****", and why would you do such a thing anyway?
2007-06-19 03:51:46 · answer #9 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you were a fruitcake, of course.
2007-06-19 01:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋