have any of had sex i heard that the first time it hurts?

Answer 1

The first time I had sex it did not hurt at all.
The first time I used a tampon hurt like a ***** - but no bleeding, and no sore for two days crap.
Make sure you are with the right guy, preferably your husb, and bring lubricant - helps a lot, and later your body will be responsive enough to make your own 'lubricant'.

Answer 2

YES it does. There is something called the hymen. If you are active in sports you may have torn that before you decide to have sex but chances are it will still be there. Now if the hymen is there it will hurt like crazy. If not it will still hurt like crazy because there is a litttle bit spliting that occurs down there. YES you will bleed and NO dont practice with a finger because it is nothing like it. You are setting yourself up for disappointment if you think that will help. You must wait until you are abosultely ready and i will say that should be at least 18 but you can and perhaps should even wait longer. The SAD part is that your first time will be completely horrible. you will go through all that pain and you wont even enjoy it and if you are young the guy may not have a clue of what to do. He will enjoy it and you wont be able to walk without pain for 2 to 3 days. You have to make sure it is worth it when you do for the first time. When you are older, wiser and absolutely in love. All Three

Answer 3

It depends on whether or not you have previously broken your hymen (I think thats how its spelled, lol). You could have fallen on a boys bike or something like that and already broke it. Thats the part that hurts when it comes to sex for the first time. Yeah, you do bleed, but its not as bad as it sounds. It varies with everyone, but its not something that you are gonna have to freak out about. I can tell you that if sex for the first time is with someone you love and someone who loves you back the pain will be miniscule compared to someone who just wants to get thier rocks off. That pain is gonna last for a long time.

Answer 4

Every person is different

I'm a girl and the first time i had sex it didn't hurt at all

Answer 5

Yeah I heard that it hurts for some women. For men I know for sure it doesnt do anything. Dont be scared though. It will get better after your first time.

Answer 6

It doesn't really hurt, it's just uncomfortable. But, that's just me. I had experimented with toys and had also fooled around with the guy before we had sex, so I sort of knew what to expect as for the way it would feel up in there. Just relax, and make sure he knows its your first time so that he's easy on you.

Answer 7

At first is kinda hurts a little, but trust me, the pain goes away just like that! It may bleed, it may not, some peoples bodys are different.

Answer 8

It all depends upon the person(man) who is with you ,If he is patient ,it will not hurt as you have to use some lubricant to make the entry easy and comfortable as it is the first time .Remember there is no pleasure with out pain and no gain without pain. I am only trying to comfort you as the pain you experience is nothing compared to pleasure derived , which is simply ecstasy.May you really enjoy your first (Intercourse) .Bye and God Bless you.

Answer 9

sometimes it does.
[speaking for girls]
for men, no.

but for girls, its possible.
unless you used tampons or did vigorous sports.
it which there is alot of bouncing action.

like horseback riding.
and tampons only SOMETIMES will break the hymen.

so just make sure the first time is with the one you love (:

hope i helped!

Answer 10

for men it doesn't hurt for women it hurts