what contribute towards the change? is it some kind of human evolution? no offense to all gays, i dont want to be like the 'greys anatomy' lead actor.. but really...genuinely i wanna know.
2007-06-18 17:38:41 · 22 answers · asked by ladyjane 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
How abt this : i have a friend, he was engaged to a lady before and for some reason, broke up.
He then turn to gay, after a while...he met this lady and likes her, now he is questioning his sexual preference and might want to become straight again....is this possible?
Can a straight become gay and back to straight again?
What you call this?
2007-06-19 13:40:02 · update #1
They werent ever really straight!
They lied to themselves and others , its much easier.
2007-06-18 17:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Straight guys don't become gay. Gays guys realise and accept their sexuality and come out as gay after living as a perceived heterosexual.
I don't think it's some kind of human evolution, homosexuality has been documented as far back as Greeks and Romans. I think the way we express sexuality and love now days is more a social evolution, not a genetic change but a change in the way our society's act and the ways homosexuality is treated. I think is largely influenced by the ways society is structured now and the changing roles of gender also the fact that relationships are largely based on romantic attraction rather than family obligation and procreation.
I don't think you're like Isaiah Washington (Grey's actor) although your question is worded in ways that show you have no real clue about homosexuality you are (hopefully) open to honest answers that will help you become a more understanding and accepting individual.
2007-06-18 18:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They never were str8 2 begin with they were confused. People dont "become" gay they already r gay. They were gay the whole time its something ur born with. Some ppl just take longer than others 2 realize it but their true orientation will come out eventually.
2007-06-18 17:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by rjones 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Experts say that there is a brief moment in everyone's life in which we are gay. It happens to everybody. Based on what happens during that moment is where your sexual orientation comes from. And it could happen at any time. That's why you see old people coming out or just 13 year old kids.
2007-06-18 17:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by Ketsuban 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay men and women are born that way. In the past it was accepted even less than it was today so people were more prone to hiding it. Homosexuality has been around since ancient times of Greece and Rome...
2007-06-18 17:44:41 · answer #5 · answered by T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was bitten by a gay mosquito, or a gay person sneezed too close to him, or he went to one of those places that hypnotizes straight men to make them gay. Who knows? Actually the true answer has been given to you a few times before...he was ALWAYS gay and finally struggled to accept it.
His life will not get easier, but he will achieve internal peace.
2007-06-18 18:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by AliBaba 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only straight guy who ever "becomes" gay, is actually a gay guy who's finally decided to stop lying to himself and everyone else.
Being gay isn't something you become, or something you "choose" to become...you either "is" or you "ain't", plain and simple. It's totally possible to be bi, or at least bi-curious, but no 100% hetero man who loves women can ever be forced to suck a d--k. Period.
2007-06-18 17:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by dreamchaser8860 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Half of the gays that lead a straight life and quote un-quote become gay, are actually gay when they are born and just try to hide it.
For the other half who "CHOOSE" to be gay give us true gay men a bad name.
Thats my label of a true F@ggot!
2007-06-18 17:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by DWizz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Straight guys don't become gay. If someone is gay, they were always gay, they just didn't tell you yet, because they were in denial or did not know.
2007-06-19 04:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know what? Why a gay guy finally lets people know he's gay? Maybe he finally got brave enough to come out.
Straight guys don't suddenly become gay.
2007-06-18 17:44:07 · answer #10 · answered by kiwi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Straight guys don't become gay.....gay guys become gay. That is to say....you don't "become" gay....you we're always gay. So, you just admit to yourself what you are.....and open up to it. It's not hard to understand really.....denying the truth about your sexual identity is easier for some...than admitting it to themselves.
Admitting this truth to friends and family....even harder.
Straight guys don't become gay.....they already were gay.
-Vinny.
2007-06-18 19:14:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋