yeah...I know...sounded pathetic to me too :) But what can I tell you guys I was just waiting for the perfect guy...and waited...and waited...and waited. So what would you do If you were me? Should I just go ahead and do it with the next one that comes up? Yeah...I also think it's not a big deal...but you know...some people think that the first time should be with someone special....shouldn't it? Thanks for your comments!
2007-06-18 17:36:31 · 17 answers · asked by Martin R 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First love is special because of it's first and not because a special person or place or event. So you are now 36 and should be mature enough to understand that there is no perfect thing or person in this world. In relationship, a person is perfect to you because you love him and can accept whatever he is.
So don't hesitate, try to get into relationship with someone as long as the feeling is right. And remember, sex is important but not everything... so don't worry about the virgin part, you are perfect.
2007-06-18 17:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Definitely rent 40 year old virgin. Come on, it's nice you want to do it with someone special, but are you going to wait 10 more years until someone comes along? Get it over with, just use protection and have fun, it's no big deal.
2007-06-19 01:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by BlueDal 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey it's alright. I'll be 35 in July and I haven't had sex yet. Ok, I have received and given some incredible blowjobs. And I have cuddled and kissed until I was floating above the heavens. However, I've not done anything far beyond that. I, too, want to do more. I'm sincerely thinking about celebrating my 35th birthday with that "extra mile." My life has been filled with religious guilt, anxiety, and such. I've sinced been free of that but my sexual hangups have really got the best of me. I am now ready to liberate myself completely; tell the world I'm gay, I'm here, and I'm ready for SEX.
It may be a little late (to most people) but I feel more alive now than I ever did as a teenager and as a guy in my 20s. Thank heaven for 35, thank heaven for wisdom, thank heaven for ME, and thank heaven for.......well you get the picture. :-)
Have sex and have fun my friend! You're not alone.
2007-06-19 00:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by sivatmin 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
do what feels right to you! personally i dont think there is nothin wrong w/ bein in ur 30s and being a virgin. im twenty and i too was waitin to hav sex w/ that special sumone...but i had my first gay sex w/ a really good friend of mine. it wasnt just a random act...we cared for each other and one night it just happened. the whole thing felt really natural...nothing about that night felt akward. i think thats really what its all about...makin love NOT havin rough animal sex. if you come accross a person that makes you feel special...makes you feel loved, then theirs nothin wrong w/ havin sex w/them. but definately DO NOT go and just hav sex w/ hoockers like other have mentioned. even if your first time isnt w/ the person u want to spend the rest of your life w/...it still has to be a special moment. i know my first time was at a special moment b/c i hav no regrets bout it.
best of luck ...and remember to ALWAYS be safe!!!
2007-06-19 00:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by cris31 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm practically a virgin too and I'm 22 so you make me feel better. But if it doesn't bother you waiting, wait a bit longer. If he doesn't come along, then just settle for someone that's reasonable. Don't lower your standards too much but like I said, if he doesn't come along, maybe you just have to make do, you know?
2007-06-19 00:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
BRAVO TO YOU!!!!! Don't go and just have sex with any one. . Keep your morals. I think your way smart. It should be with someone special that day will come. I have a friend who is a virgin to and waiting for the right guy.. Don't give up your man will come your way.
2007-06-19 00:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by trisha c *for da ben dan* 4 · 7⤊ 1⤋
If I don't kill myself over being a 36-year-old virgin (which I hope I don't keep it that long) than I would just have a one-night stand.
2007-06-19 01:01:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well wait 4 more yrs. u will be the 40 yr old virgin!
2007-06-19 01:14:23 · answer #8 · answered by Bethany 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. I would rent the 40 yr old virgin.
2. I would find some good dating sites on the net and put them to use.
2007-06-19 00:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by Kim's Mommy 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
U cant be serious, You most definitely need to rent 40 year old virgin 2DAY
2007-06-19 01:26:28 · answer #10 · answered by Sexy Chick 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋