NEED ADVICE. Im in love with someone who says she loves me but just cant continue our "relationship".

Question

You see, she says she loves me & still gets intimate with me. She has no other person in her life. She texts me constantly & worries if I dont text her back. We see each other almost 3-4 times a week. But my problem is, she says she in NOT in love with me the way she used to but maintain a more noble love... I understand her point but i cant seem to move on. How should I eact everytimes she says she loves me & I know it isn't the same kind of love that I feel for her. I know I am still in love with her but I respect her decision because she is NOT comfortable with our relationship anymore ( same sex relationship ) isn't accepted here, you know. How should I handle this? I am willing to move on & be just a friend but I still feel territorial and we still share intimacies.I want us to be real friends & family too but as long as I am still in love with her I can't avoid but to get hurt knowing we dont feel exactly the same. She wants us to be "the same" minus the "relationship. HELP

Answer 1

first of all you are a good person to love so deeply but your also a fool for the same reason..why are u letting her string u along?its easy to have a relationship with benefits seems like thats what she wants..of course with no strings attached and from what she told u said u are attached and its not working..do urself a favor and let go..yes it may hurt and yes u will miss her..hell I am talking from experience..you deserve someone who will love u COMPLETLY not partially and thats is what she is doing..u can always love her but find someone who will return your affection fully without holding back..only when u are ready will u be able to move on..good luck

Answer 2

I think your relationship is just M.U.-mutual understanding. Both of you share intimacies but either of you really love each other unconditionally. Just keep on loving her as long as you can, for her to realize that you're not like other man who just fling and let go. When the time comes for you to give up, maybe it's the time she'll realize your importance in her life. Then, there's a decision you should make to accept her or not. After of course, deeply weighing the circumstances, most importantly, compatibility.

Answer 3

properly, you will desire to be in that lust, domestic dog love point (it doesnt continuously placed on off after a month, from time to time it will final a touch longer) and perhaps you the two style of understand this, subconciously. additionally, it might desire to be considering which you have the two been harm, saying "i admire you" may well be 3 little words, yet they have a million massive meaning, and via saying in the previous your entirly specific, you may finally end up inflicting an incredible sort of issues. purely enable it take place. once you're arranged to declare it, you will say it. it quite is o.k. to no longer say it purely yet, and besides bear in mind this: movements communicate louder than words. so as long as you have a happy, loving, healthful courting, you haven't any longer something to be concerned approximately. purely enable all of it take place. Theres particularly no would desire to hurry.

Answer 4

My advice to you please stop your lesbianism.The decision of your friend is right because she has fallen in love to a handsome guy.It is only wasting her valuable time if she continues her loving relationship with you.You must love a good guy because Allah the only one God has created men for women and women for men not for the same sex.You can compared that falling in love to the opposite sex is better and nicer than with the same sex.In islamic teaching lesbianism and homonism are prohibited.In the holy qur'an surah 7 Al A'raaf( highest place) verse 80 in Luth prophet era, that people could not make a faahisyah (lesbianism/homonism) because it is abnormal and beyond the border..In verse 83 and 84 God dropped the stone rain so all lesbian and homosex people at that time were died..Before Luth era there were not humans like those in the era of Luth.God punished them by stone rain.

Answer 5

aww im srry im going threw that to my best friend and i were having feelings for each otherbut she loved her bf to and her mom is against it so everytime i text her she wont respond.......it hurts i kow and you cant be the same especialy sice you to were way more than friends i mean you can trey but its going to be very hard on you an she just doesnt see how yo feel if you wanna talk more about this email me [e-mail] hope it all goes okay

Answer 6

wow!!! you guys might need to take a breather from eachother to see if you can be "just friends" i would stop having "intimate" moments with her. You can't be "the same" minus the ":relationship" with out setting some boundries.

Answer 7

happened to me too, minus the intimacy cos boundaries were set. she decided to conform to social norms. after we broke up, she was still jealous whn i got close to other girls ans expected as much of me as whn we were tgt. but this made things worse cos it wasnt a clean break. and whn she eventually decided to have a clean one, it hurt me more than ever. your ex seems bent on gg straight so i think you shld end it now. stop the intimacies. it'll be missed alot but it'll only get worse if you dont stop it now. its too much of her to want you but not the relationship as well. dont subject yourself to tht. everyone deserves to be loved well so yea. thats just my two cents worth, hope it helps. its tough, i know. we just gna handle it somehow. it may happen more thn once you know.. cheerio.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

just sit her down and talk to her and tell her how you feel