i have been having sex with my boy for like 4 months, it hurt often at first but i thought that was because he was so big (long) mainly during deep penetration. after a while it quit hurting but now it hurts again (sharp pains like getting stabbed in my pelvic area, like in my cervix?). once afterwards it hurt like bad cramps which is unusual. i been tested for gonorrea and clamydia so i dont think its PID, any idea is this normal or something i need looked at???
2007-06-18 17:11:04 · 16 answers · asked by thats me 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
haha, and by boy i mean boyfriend... sickos
2007-06-18 17:14:09 · update #1
tried different angles, slow fast, gentle, it doesnt matters on days it hurts it dont change depending on position and when it doesnt hurt, it dont matter how we do it???
2007-06-18 17:16:52 · update #2
Dyspareunia is the medical term for pain during intercourse. Pain during intercourse can be caused by a wide variety of reasons.
The Causes of Pain During Intercourse Include:
*Tipped or retroverted uterus - Some women with a tipped uterus experience pain during intercourse. This happens when the penis hits the cervix or uterus during sex. This condition is known as collision dyspareunia.
*Endometriosis - The tissue lining the uterus - the endometrium - may grow outside the uterus causing deep pain during sex.
Infection - Bacterial or yeast infections are among the most common causes of pain during intercourse.
*Lack of estrogen - During menopause, the vaginal walls thin and the amount of vaginal lubrication decreases.
Vulvodynia - In this condition, the vulva is hypersensitive and extremely tender on touch.
Drug side effects - Common drugs including those for allergy, high blood pressure or depression may affect the amount of vaginal lubrication, as well as the level of sexual arousal and desire.
*Physical problems - Scar tissue from abdominal surgery or from delivering a baby can distort the anatomy and cause significant pain during intercourse. A cyst on an ovary can also cause pain.
*Pelvic floor myalgia - Pelvic floor muscle spasms are involuntary muscle spasms and can result in difficult and uncomfortable sex.
Emotional issues - Sometimes, past issues such as sexual abuse or communication problems in a relationship can translate into sexual difficulties.
Pain during sex, dyspareunia, may be caused by other reasons as well. Only consultation with a physician or another health care professional will help you find out why you hurt and help you find a solution.
2007-06-18 18:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by ♒Aqua_Lady♒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women experience discomfort when the penis repeatedly comes in contact with the cervix, esp. if it's forceful. Yes, the cramps are unusual and I'd suggest that you try another position where you don't irritate the cervix. Give it a little time in case there's some internal bruising and then try a different position. If after that, the pain and cramping happens again, I'd definitely get it checked more thoroughly.
2007-06-18 17:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best and only answer for this that i can give, being as im not a physician, would be give it a couple of more months, dont try as much deep penetration and build up. Say hes 12 inches? start at 6 inches for a week or two and build up. Or say hes not around masturbation always helps to build up. Just work your way up. If this doesn't help I would say find another physician and seek some help.
2007-06-18 17:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by smokeyjoe4848 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pain during the first trimester can simply be caused by the body adjusting to the pregnancy - your cervix has to close tightly, and your coxix bone will move very very slightly. Personally, I had discomfort from sex, because I was dry from the hormone change (my doctor explained to me when I asked him a few days later). You should definitely tell your doctor though to rule out other problems.
2016-04-01 05:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by Ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be the angle at which you are "going at it". If he hits your cervix, it is going to hurt. Try different positions and see if it still hurts. If it does, see your doctor as this could be a sign of something more serious.
2007-06-18 17:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by getaclueppl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try waiting until you are really turned on [ lubricating, making noise ] You guide the pace. As arousal in women increases, the cervix moves up in the pelvis, making more 'room' for the penis.
After a few tries, if unsuccessful, go see your doctor. [ could be endometriosis ]
2007-06-18 18:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just be that he is hitting your cervix. Try different positions that don't aggravate so much. Also your cervix has different positions depending on what time of the month it is.
2007-06-18 17:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by opalescent_angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On an average the first two to four inches of a womans vagina are the most sensitive. Its a strong posibility that your boyfriend may just be to long for you. ask him to try shorter stokes to see if that may rectify your problem.
2007-06-18 17:16:46 · answer #8 · answered by stormyknight64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be nothing, but regardless, if you are having sex, you need to get your annual pap done. While you are there, tell your OB/GYN about this pain you are experiencing. They can usually detect an infection if there is any.
2007-06-18 17:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by Janelle C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be Endometriosis. Check it out on WebMD. It's pretty common and does cause pain during intercourse.
2007-06-18 18:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by Beca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋