2007-06-18 17:06:59 · 16 answers · asked by deep 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
alcoholic husband had nothing to do with your love life.you unfaith ful to him .he need your help.ask your self your other relation make him alcoholic.i don't know how much you value your marriage.how you going to be faith ful to other one.once you cheat your soul you can do it again. think thousand time before you destroy your marriage .what about kids.and kids father.father is very big part of kids life.think,,,think,,,
2007-06-19 15:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by Smita P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that you are a mother of two kids and a wife.Since you love somebody else your husbands addiction to liquor is aproblem for you is'nt it? Okay for the sake of argument let us assume that he is addicted. Is it not your duty to save him from such addiction beinghis lifepartner? What you want to get rid of this man for your love? If your love also starts such addiction in future, will you start lovinganother person? Then what will be the fate of your children? Do have some sense of reality and concentrate on the futureof your children and show some concern to your husband. The love andall will vanish once you become old.
2007-06-19 06:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by VP K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am shamed to read this question because your husband is liquor addicted that might be happen in so many familities. you at the same time enquiring for another husband without caring your childrens father or you are so unfaithfull to your husband. if your lover also become liquior addict then what will you do So treat your husband if he is not required for you. He is the father of your children
2007-06-19 05:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by suja kumari.b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does "someone" love you?How old are your children?If they have come into a bigger age say about 15 ,you might consider divorce.Perhaps before that, you might like to find out if your husband really love you.If yes,he will be willing to kick away his habits bit by bit.If he don't want to,there's no point going on.To me,children matters more.After all,they will be the victims.
If you remarry,what if their stepfather is bias and treats only his own children well?What if your husband really love you?Go and clarify with him.P.S that "someone"must sacriface a bit for your sake.Vikilion,your words sure is hurtful,not harsh
REMEMBER:be in the children's shoes!!Very important!!!
2007-06-19 00:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by zic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is a recovering cocaine addict, so I know what you are going through. Get him into some type of rehab facility. The longer he puts off going to rehab to worse his addiction will get. I can tell you that from experience with my husband. He needs to go to a rehab facility for at least 6 months. I would like to suggest Teen Challenge in Greensboro, NC. http://teenchallengeusa.com/greensboro/
This is where my husband is. It is for all types of addiction. It is a Christian Rehab that focuses on the whole family. Teen Challenge has facilities and programs all over the US. They offer free marriage counseling and a free place (like an apartment) to stay with your husband on your counseling weekends. Their cost to attend is very minimal and they will work with you on the money situation. I know of 2 other people that have successfully completed this program and still after 1 year are clean. Teen Challenge is not just for teens, it is for people of all different ages. Please contact them and please feel free to e-mail me if you need to talk. I will be praying for you and your family. I will especially be praying for your husband to be healed.
2007-06-19 00:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are deliberately mixing two issues
A liquor addict can be treated
If u love someone, it is illicit love
It is a sin and adultery
Maybe your husband is liquor addicted
because u are unfaithful
2007-06-19 00:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay there really isnt enough detail here to sugggest totally what to do but I will tell you, you had those kids they didn;t ask to be born so they come first. Leave pure and simple. DO not run to another guy though, get your own place and get those kids out of this situation. Show them they are first and foremost in your life sorry but the other person has to wait and will if he loves you
2007-06-19 00:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by caligal68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liquor addiction is very irritating to treat as he can abuse you in front of children or in front of everyone without any cause, Keep your mind stable & make your children understand that you are right to have a friend apart from their hon'ble father.
Go ahead!
2007-06-19 00:30:54 · answer #8 · answered by Gargi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband was paralyzed from the waist down would you still be called to fulfill your vows in sickness and in health? So why wouldn't you do the same for your alcoholic husband? He's sick and needs help. Forget about the other man and work on your marriage.
2007-06-19 00:11:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
KILL U R KIDS AND HUSBAND AND START A NEW LIFE.
am I sounding harsh? thats the reality becoz wat kind of woman u could be if u dont love ur husband whole heartdly, u can treat him for alcohol addiction if u really love him but u r already keeping one leg in someone else bed room, how wil u b a good mother to a your kids and how good n faithful wil u b to u r new bed partner?
2007-06-19 00:17:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋