not family members. I mean Girl friend Boy friend or Husband and Wife
2007-06-18 16:01:58 · 11 answers · asked by Lee light 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
1) Willing to "learn" who the other person IS, instead of MAKING the other person WHO you want THEM to be. Excepting that they are an individual and NOT manipulating changes.
2) Willing to GIVE unselfishly to the other in thought AND deed EVEN when YOU are the only giver at some time. In doing this, the rewards are GREAT for the giver because the other person relaxes and responds to the kindnesses.
3) Willing to HOLD up the other person so THEY don't get sad. ...when YOU , yourself are an actual victim of a crime or disease. Those closest to us HURT when WE hurt... SOOOOO pretend YOU don't.
2007-06-18 16:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by dbzgalaxy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that the biggest misconception about "LOVE' is this: Does it even exist? I mean think about it...what is "love" really? Can it not be determined by ones own belief? Has not love been at the root of many negative things in this world? Also, who was the first person to call "love" "love?" Can it not be said that throughout time the emotion that we know as love has been thwarted and pounded into our hearts and minds? So who can really tell you what "love" is. One thing I do know is that to love ones' self is the MOST IMPORTANT kind of "love" out there, and it is probably the most rarest form, which is why love has been given a bad name. :-)
2007-06-18 19:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by alimon72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. That you want to make choices that will be the best for the other person even if it hurts you.
2. That you think about the person more than anyone else.
3. That you are willing to spend the rest of your life getting to know the person and pleasing them.
2007-06-18 16:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by Makemeaspark 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Mutual respect and consideration of each others ideas, choices, dreams, goals, and likes.
Deep romantic feelings, heart pulpitations, complete and utter happiness when together, soft touches, compliments, and happy when they are happy.
They actually care about what is important to you, and what makes you tick, and being yourself is perfectly o.k. with them.
2007-06-18 16:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by Sherri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't care about appearance, they'd never intentionally do something that would hurt the other in any way, they're unconditionally more important to each other than everything else.
2007-06-18 16:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by shmux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) You don't have to ask.
2) You don't have to wonder.
3) You don't have to fear.
2007-06-18 16:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by runnerbound 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
encouragement,to put the other first,that light that is in each others eyes
2007-06-18 16:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship, acceptance, and honesty.
2007-06-18 16:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by Lady 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
man i dont even think i would recognize it
2007-06-18 16:10:21 · answer #9 · answered by angelina_mcardle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A heterosexist question.
2007-06-18 16:05:59 · answer #10 · answered by guru 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋