mutual masturbation? why do you think its gay?

Question

ok I have ready several questions and comments here about mutual masturbation in which in my experience has been 2 or more of us guys masturbating in the same room same time no physical contact. so many says that it is gay etc... , I think too many of us guys are too homophobic and afraid of what we might discover if we step outside the box!!! first to be able to have mutual masturbation with a friend you have to be close enough to s friend to be comfortable and most guys think if they are close to another guy friend at all they might feel gay, let alone be able to masturbate in the same room. If some of you grown men would try it you would find that its very eye opening because you have the chance to see how other men masturbate(different styles etc... ) and the first time I heard another man moan when he ejaculated was awesome, which can make you feel like you need to change the routine and enjoy yours as much as he enjoys his. I have been married to a female for 18 yrs and not gay.

Answer 1

I would not say you are gay, but certainly their seems to be bi-sexual tendencies.

Whatever floats your boat is your business and no one elses.

Answer 2

Gay Mutual Masturbation

Answer 3

I'm with you. Years ago my two best friends and I all masterbated sitting next to each other on an old couch. We weren't watching TV or any pornos either we were watching each other and how we each did it. 3 guys 3 different methods of jerkin off. Then we compared who came the most. This was a circle jerk as they say not mutual masterbation, which is mutual in that you jerk the other partner off then/ while they do you. My friends and I experimented rubbing our sticks together and it felt good. But still no gay! Gay is a life style not an act. We were horny teens who didn't have any opening to females so we made ourselves feel good with what ya had. One of them did go on to become GAY! and my other friend and I got married. I personally have had no other male to male interaction since those early teen years but I would say that if I met a hot guy I might go for a little M&M action. AM I Gay NO! I am not in love with men Love is for women. I am after the big O, so if it is a woman or a male so be it I just want to get off.

Answer 4

Gay Mutual Jerk Off

Answer 5

Mutual masturbation generally means two people masturbating each other. Masturbating in the same room with someone else who is masturbating is not mutual masturbation, that's just a circle jerk (or variation of it).

Technically, mutual masturbation between two people of the same sex is a gay activity. However, two people of the same sex masturbating in the same room (without physical contact between them) isn't gay. This is actually something that a lot of guys do (particularly in their teens) and it's something that a lot of straight people want to do and would consider doing except that they think people would assume it's gay.

There is nothing gay about two horny guys jerking off to straight porn together in the same room. But generally, the suggestion of doing that would set off the homophobic ridicule from insecure people wouldn't admit to being interested in such a thing (for fear of being labled as gay). The truth is most homophobes are closit cases themselves and being homophobic is simply their defense. Any straight guy who is confident in their sexuality wouldn't have a problem jerking off with another guy in the room as long as the friend was doing it too. Unless you spend more time focusing on each other than the porn (or whatever) you are not gay. I've done it before and I know several other straight guys who have.

Another guy (or a bunch of guys) that are horny at the same time in the same room is infectious and will make you horny too. That doesn't mean that you want to all 'do' each other! It just means that you all got boners and have no problem taking care of buisness at the same time.

By the way, anyone who disagrees with this, but thinks that a guy who watches straight porn isn't gay is delusional. There is no difference between this and a guy watching a guy (penis and all) screw a chick on TV. Would you say that any guy who watches porn (that features a male actor in it) is gay? Just because a guy is turned on by the sight of an erect penis doesn't mean that he wants to get it on with the owner of the penis. It's just for reference and comparison.

Answer 6

Most of the time when people refer to mutual masturbation, they are referring to actually stroking the other man's penis. What you describe is usually called a circle jerk. I don't know that being in the same room with another man masturbating makes you gay but it does seem that a man with gay or bisexual tendencies would enjoy it more than a straight man would.

Answer 7

I know a lot "straight" guys who like to do this, but I quote straight for a reason. You've got a gay side. Doesn't mean you need to leave your wife and marry a man, it just means it's another facet of your sexuality. But "mutual masturbation" is still gay.

Not that there's anything wrong with that ;-)

Answer 8

Sorry but if your not gay you are bi. No straight guy would enjoy watching or listening to another man masturbate

Answer 9

Dude! Wanting to watch another guy whack off is gay. What in the hell are you hoping to "discover???" You are in total denial if you think this is not gay. You are bi at the very least. Watch porn if you want pointers on "technique." Damn.

Answer 10

What Dick P said is resounding fairly comfortable with me.

However, the trick to being comfortable with your sexuality is not to hurt anyone's feelings along the way. For example, does your wife know you like to circle jerk?

Answer 11

The simple fact that you find this interesting suggests that you have homosexual tendencies. Being married to a woman for any amount of time doesn't mean that you are not bisexual or homosexual. If this is something you enjoy, then enjoy it. But, there is no reason for you to expect other men to share your interests.