2007-06-18 14:42:52 · 17 answers · asked by ? 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Can someone be forgived and also maybe he really opened his eyes to what he actually has to lose and knows in his heart that the only place for him is forever with you.
Some do learn,can some forgive?
2007-06-18 15:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by ////////// 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm recovering from a major betrayal now. It came from my former best friend of nearly 21 years. I have to remove myself from the situation- no further contact of any sort, amongst other things. It hurts like hell and feels like a piece of me is dying.
I'm having to accept that I am powerless over this person and situation. I want to fight it with every ounce of strength left in my being, but deep down I know that it would probably cause even more misery later. I have resolved to deal with this loss the only way I really can: one day at a time.
2007-06-18 14:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by *~*~*poof*~*~* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Step back, take a deep breathe over and over. I had my best friend betray me so fast and so suddenly I was shaking. First, look into the mirror, tell yourself "No one deserves to be treated this badly" say it until you believe it.
Then immerse yourself into an inner passion/talent. Take your mind off of it and let yourself be taken with this new focus.
This is very hard, but you must do it, and trust me YOU WILL! Let go. Be friendly to the person that hurt you, but don't think about how badly s/he hurt you. Don't let them take over your life. Someday, it won't be you that is hurt it will be him/her. S/he'll see what a great person you are and regret what s/he did. Just let go and talk with your other friends.
Sending you my love
2007-06-18 14:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by The Animal Psychiatrist♬♪ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tequilla
2007-06-18 14:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by Experimental876 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One doesn't. With each betrayal comes less trust and more cynicism until trust is impossible.
Remember, forgivesness is giving the person permission to hurt you again.
2007-06-18 14:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by Bill Melater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not ever get over it. You just have to move on.
2007-06-18 14:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by Nico 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Time or another love
2007-06-18 19:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by Mag 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds...don't dwell in the past.
2007-06-18 17:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by Carl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just live your life and work over the person!! hopefully you should find someone worth your time!!!!!!!!!!!! me personally would get total revenge!!!! (joking with ya!!)
2007-06-18 14:52:25 · answer #9 · answered by alex t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just takes time.
Hang in there, things will get better.
2007-06-18 14:58:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋