I have completely screwed up my life somehow ended up working as a receptionist and a very boring, sad person, this has been going on for 6 months now and I have no idea how to fix it. Now whatever I do I’m doing because I have to not because I want to and I cannot see myself ever being happy again……I had so many plans and ideas, this is not how my life was meant to turn out, and in the space of 6 months I have stuffed up 20 years worth of friend ships and family relationships, no one understands as no one has my life but I cannot fix it, I just want to be how I used to be smiling and happy all the time, but I cant see anything helping me now, and I don’t want to be this person forever.
2007-06-18 12:17:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
girl get counseling! depression is the worst thing and you can not get out of it all by yourself. You need to get rid of negative energy and understand that each day will pass and it's up to you to make the most of it.
U should start a journal to help you focus on what you want in live and go for it, it's NEVER EVER too late.
2007-06-18 12:23:18 · answer #1 · answered by The thinker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you are going through something similar, basically completely similar to what I went through exactly a year ago today. Difference is I was with another guy for two years, and my pain happened one year ago. Depending on who you are, I can't lie in saying that you will get better very soon. You might … you might not. What you need to understand is why you feel so sad, if it is because you are sad that you won't see him so often you need to tell him that. This is your life and no one has the right to make you feel unhappy. They can't do that to you unless you let them, so you need to talk him and let him know whatever it is you need to tell him. You will feel much better and chances are that you might even get back together soon. There is always hope, sometimes it is just hard to find it. Keep strong and believe in yourself. Breaking up totally sucks, but it's what you do for yourself and for the ones you care about most that matters. good luck!
2016-05-19 01:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to recognize the source of your unhappiness. You hate your job, then leave it, find something that you like (it's not as easy as it sounds, I know) or try doing other activities that will make you feel satisfied. When working, think that all that you want is the money, don't let your job define you or rule your life. I wonder what your plans were and why they didn't work out. Maybe you can still make it your own way. Other than that it may happen that you are growing and --from my own experience, I shall say-- we become more disappointed with life as we age; things are not what we thought (when we were young) they were.
2007-06-18 12:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by andruchina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is totally up to you whether or not you will ever be happy again. You said you had hopes and dreams for your life. Where did they go? You aren't stuck forever in your present job. If you aren't fulfilled with your work, you can't be happy. We spend more hours at work in a week than we spend with our children and our family & friends. Therefore, it should be something that fulfills us as people. Everyone needs a challenge and it sounds like your job isn't offering you the challenges and opportunities you would like to have a shot at.Start sending out resumes just to see what responses you get. Don't give up, continue to send out resumes every month and make follow up calls. As for your friends and family, you need to be forgiving of them and ask forgiveness from them. At least you can get that part of your life back fairly quickly.I wish you the best of luck in pursuing new avenues in your life.Never give up and you will find the right place for you.
2007-06-18 12:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not happy with your career you definitely need to work towards changing it. Don't trap yourself in misery beleiving you have to work this job to survive. Find a way to change it or accept your current position. One thing I know for sure is that only action on your part is going to improve your situation. Life is to short to feel the way your feeling. Its not easy but be strong and have courage.
2007-06-18 13:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean this to sound mean, but hon, you need help. Talk to a psychiatrist or a minister or even your family doctor and tell them all the details. You sound like you are in too deep and need a hand. I promise that if you get professional help, and are honest with them and do what they say, you WILL feel better.
2007-06-18 12:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by mrslititia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, everyone get that way once in a while. If you don't like where you are at, you DO have the power to change. When you are truely fed up with where you are at, you'll make it happen.
Good luck
2007-06-18 12:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋