We planned on getting married soon and we both love each other so much. lately we haven't really talked about much besides the general 'what'd you do today' conversation. I really want this to work, but he thinks I treat him like a child because i ask him where he's going, and i call him. I don't think i treat him like a child, because when i go somewhere he does the same. I know he's busy and i try to be supportive. but i miss the time we used to spend together, and i know its i little selfish asking him to drop what he's doing just to hang out with me. I'm worried that he's going to get irritated with me and just end it all but i dont want that. i just really miss him, i miss our conversations and just being with each other. How do i get some time with him, without nagging? And how do i get him to believe that i'm not treating him like a child?
2007-06-18 11:40:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Old saying if you love someone let them go if they come back to you it is forever Yes he needs not to be confined by your calls and questioning. Love is trust if the trust is not there and always questioned or followed there will be a problem. Only other advice I can give is to be best friends always it is easier to forgive a best friend than a lover. Married for over 25 years
2007-06-18 12:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by Pengy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh i know what you're going though. i recently got engaged and now my fiancee is working 17 hour days and i barely see him. I just leave him little notes telling him how much i miss him and that i love him. we TRY to make saturday our date day where we don't talk about work or the wedding. maybe you need to sit down with your fiancee and let him know that you miss the time you used to spend together and that you want to plan a date night with him~ if he is getting upset that you want to be with him, the i would say something is wrong.....
good luck
2007-06-18 18:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by stephanie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋