I am in a relationship with someone I love. However, I tend to be clingy where I need to know what he is doing all the time and I don't give him space. I guess I am afraid of losing him. How do I make my relationship with him better so that he doen't feel like I am stifling him.
2007-06-18 11:19:44 · 10 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Give yourself challenges. On a given day make yourself not call him from 8 am to 6 pm. Next time he says he's going out with his buddies, challenge yourself to not ask him how long he will be out. When you call him and he doesn't answer challenge yourself to not call more then once then leave a message and do not call again. Let him call you. You'll see challenging yourself is rewarding when you succeed at slowly changing your bad habits.
2007-06-18 11:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid. Do other things that make you happy. If it doesn't include him all the time thats ok. If he ever does something to jeopardize the relationship at least you wouldn't regret all the time you were in a relationship. Because at least you spent some of it thinking of something else.
2007-06-18 11:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by Giannina V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wil let you know where he goes most of the time if you give him a chance just not always directly or before hand. And limit the times you call. It is not hard just put yourself in his shoes and ask if you are doing what ever to often.
2007-06-18 11:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some things that you enjoy doing and do them. When the phone rings and his number pops up don't answer and call him back when you get around to it. Spend time with friends. Those are just a few ideas.
2007-06-18 11:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should start going places with friends and family with out him and just focus on the people you are with. i know it mite be hard but its what your goin have to do if you want your relationship to work. also if your always calling him he will take you for granted!
2007-06-18 11:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by shark23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go out with his guys friends. he;'ll really really appriciate that! trust me. dont call him every second. and do not doubt him. if hes went somwhere with his guy friends and tells you after he comes back. accept it. it lets him know that you trust him. and you odnt need to be on him 247 . =]x
2007-06-18 11:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by xanimepuddingx11 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most people do not like others checking up on them so rethink this.
2007-06-18 11:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE MORE CLINGY YOU ARE THE QUICKER YOU WILL LOOSE HIM. TRY AN TRUST HIM. HE'S WITH YOU RIGHT? SO THAT SHOULD TELL YOU SOMETHING. JUST TRY AN KEEP YOUR SELF OCCUPIED AN KEEP YOU COOL AN CONFIDENCE
2007-06-18 11:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by Cindy L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
develop your own hobbies and stick to it (i.e. join a yoga class, etc.).
2007-06-18 11:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better learn to control that cause its a huge turn off
gl
2007-06-18 11:22:18 · answer #10 · answered by kc 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋