I hear people on here say all the time they had sex, but that it didn't "MEAN anything". Is that possible? Can two people have sex, and it not mean anything? I must be "old school", but to me, if two people have sex, it OUGHT to mean something! They SHOULD have feelings for the other person. Do you agree, or disagree? Have YOU ever had sex that meant nothing?
2007-06-18 11:03:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The Lady has to mean something to me, for me to ever be intimate with her. I want to know what her character is like, and that she is not just, "everybody's baby"....that's just nasty!
2007-06-18 11:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Yes it is possible especially if that is how the relationship started. That's why I waited to have sex with my wife, meaning I didn't try with her as with others. I cared about her on a deeper level. I could never go back to having sex & not having a deep apperation for that person & what we are sharing. I feel for a woman to give herself in that way is the most gratifying juster of love & affection. That's just my opinion on the subject.
2007-06-18 11:17:29 · answer #2 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Once upon a time we were brought up to believe that you need to be married to have sex. Over time we were then told that we at least need to be in love to have sex. Now, all people say is to be careful and use protection. Is it any wonder that we have the problems we have today (std's, unwanted pregnancies, etc etc) because sex has become such a casual thing?
2007-06-18 11:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
that is passionate, yet she's variety of indignant with you for some reason (you're able to comprehend) or she would not comprehend what she's speaking approximately. You variety of hate/love the guy on the same time,yet afterwards you sense so plenty extra appropriate and the anger is going away.
2016-11-25 22:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's about the people involved, the circumstances, and the fact that these days, it seems that you can do the horizontal mambo with people you hardly know, don't really like, and even don't remember.
Consult Sex in The City series and you will see, there are many variables to this equation.
2007-06-18 11:40:07 · answer #5 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've only had sex with my husband so I don't know. But I think your right how can you have that kind of an intimate act and feel nothing I don't think it is possible
2007-06-18 11:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by nikie_atkinson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never but i think people can have s.ex and it mean NOTHING..things like one night stands when some people have too much to drink or drugs and lose their senses....
I guess that's why they say they had "s.ex" and not "made love or making love". when you "make love" it's more than physical, it's also emotional and that to me means a lot, much more than Just "something". I hope i answered your question.
Sometimes people just get Horny and want to fill the urge and the nearest people to them will do.
2007-06-18 11:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
They should love the person their having sex with, because nothing is better than "making love".
Woman used to have alot of self respect, pride, dignity and value. They wouldn't let a guy come near them if it wasn't a relationship with alot of meaning. They used to be "virgins" when they were married.
Men used to be the only ones to worry about, because they would have sex with anyone or anything. Well that certainly changed, because woman act just like men today. They will have sex with anyone or anything.
What's really sad is they get pregnant by these creatures and it is ruining the world.
2007-06-18 11:18:44 · answer #8 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Sex often means that two people are horny, and need a release. Think about what sex is, physically. A hard penis pounding into a wet vagina. Why do we need to have feelings to play a fun little game?
2007-06-18 13:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by sweetdreams99279 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
No,I have not. I NEED to connect with someone intellectually and emotionally before I invest my body in the relationship.
I wouln't go the other way because consequences can be dire.
2007-06-18 11:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by supergirl 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That is how it should be. But my husband thinks that sex is like a meal and I should feed him on a daily basis. So I just do it to get it over with.
2007-06-18 12:01:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋