I don’t know if I love this girl but I know I have strong feelings for her. I’ve known her for 11-12 years now; I only started feeling this way about her when I was in year 5. When we finished primary school I tried to get in touch with her but couldnt find her. I'm now in year 10 and I’ve been seeing her throughout the years and I just can’t stop thinking about her, she’s like taken over my mind. I’ve tried my best to try and forget about her but I just can’t, I don’t know why. I asked a close friend to me and the girl to tell her I like her and is she would even think about going out with me, the answer was she can only accept me as a friend. Me I don’t know if I can accept that because she’s always in my head and these feelings I have for her are driving me mad it’s like my head wants to burst. I've been seeking for advice before and they've been telling to accept her as a friend and move on but I can’t forget about her believe me I’ve tried so that’s why I need your help.
2007-06-18 09:07:10 · 8 answers · asked by The EsO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What do you mean you don't know if you love her.. be a man and admit it. So since you love her... then go after her and fight for her !
2007-06-18 09:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by DON'T ARGUE W/ FOOLS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you are having trouble accepting that you can only be her friend or not - that's the way it is. Just get used to the idea. If it ever changes, it will be a nice surprise but don't count on it ever changing at all.
Ask yourself, Am I gaining anything by wasting all this time in wishful thinking? Think about that a lot and come up with a really good answer.
2007-06-23 22:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how often you ACTUALLY talk to and/or see her. Like almost everyday... she shouldn't have a problem with you two dating but if its like once every week then its just to little of time to be together. I liked a guy like that.. I was obssessed! lol My friends were going insene hearing the stories about him! lol but you how to understand if she doesn't feel loike that about you, yoiu can still live! it doesn't matter how many people DON'T like you... it matters how many people DO like you. I know you've probaby heard this like a million times but if she doesn't like you the same way move on, you can still admire her! but just get out of the obsession faze!
2007-06-18 16:23:16 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Sonia ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you love her. you can either accept her as a friend or as nothing. Your choice. Not everyone that we all love will want to love us back. its a part of life. Get a new girl and maybe she will see what she is missing and who knows, you may realize that she isn't what you are looking for. lots of fish in the sea. maybe she will come around. good luck.
2007-06-18 16:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by T19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kobra the best thing about being in love is taking a chance. ask her out & if she rejects u- let it make u stronger. atleast you didnt run from it=who wants to live thier life regretting. dive in. sink or swim buddie
gl
2007-06-24 17:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by lily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you love her, NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT.
go up to her, and tell her yourself. she probably wants to hear it from you, and it cant hurt to tell her about your feelings.
((a woman always prefers to hear the guy tell her he loves her, not from her friend.))
2007-06-25 20:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you becoming obsessed only because she only wants to be a friend?
2007-06-25 06:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeap they are right
2007-06-26 06:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by l33nix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋