...One of my friend hates their life so much i wondered what i could do to help them feel a lot better...?
Thanks!
2007-06-18 08:55:49 · 22 answers · asked by LauraLee P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Changing one's perspective,thinking about things from a different point of view enables one to 're-create' themselves. People do it all the time, we change our own lives. All you can do, if you can't inspire your friend, is tickle her (his) ears.
2007-06-18 08:59:06 · answer #1 · answered by Zeera 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had this problem before and it was certainly a frustrating one to figure out. But what I found worked best was giving him the most positive advice I could and gave him compliments to boost his self esteem and just be there for them no matter what. Ask them what it is they hate so much about their lives and think hard and give them ideas to help them fix those things. People generally grow out of those life hating phases at some point, but if you find your friend is severely down about life and it isn't getting better, professional help would be the way to go.
Best of luck to you and your friend.
:Corbyn
2007-06-18 09:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by Corbyn K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what he/she hates about his/her life the most. Then get help with those items. E/one has issues. It's a matter of working thru things that are unpleasant. It's called coping.
The sooner one learns that valuable lesson, the better.
2007-06-18 09:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what's going on in their life. Are they just dissatisfied or are they depressed? If it's disatisfaction suggest some way for them to get out of their comfort zone and try something new and fun. If it's depression, that's serious and they may need to see a mental health professional.
2007-06-18 08:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by Inquiringmind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is most likely going through a rough phase or is dealing with an issue that will pass with time. If I were you, I would let my friend know that I am there for them whenever they need to talk about something. Just keep an eye on your friend.
2007-06-18 10:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y do they hate their life... u can make them feel better by going out and doing something fun to get their mind off the things that may be bothering them
2007-06-18 09:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by posada123456 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend hates her life so much, she needs to talk to some kind of adult counselor. Helping her find someone to talk to is the best you can do.
2007-06-18 08:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by nickipettis 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would encourage them to change it ..ask them what they want to do and say do it , lifes too short...some things you cant change completely but you can make your life easier and better in some ways.
2007-06-19 01:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by Swan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will have to try to change her life and that should make it better. Nobody is happy with all aspects of their lives whether it be work etc.
2007-06-21 08:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by Little Minx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend counseling. It is ok to be sad, have your ups and downs...but hating your life in general is not a good sign. Good luck.
2007-06-18 09:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by JoliCart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋