Besides the physical which I believe there has to be a Spark what else attracts you to another??One thing and why?
2007-06-18 07:18:09 · 19 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Kindness. You need to see how a man treats his mother, animals, and the waiters at restaurants. If he isn't kind to people, he ultimately won't be kind to you. And I have no tolerance for anyone who isn't kind to animals. That is a deal-breaker for me. If you can't be nice to dogs and cats, who are sweet and innocent and trusting, then you are not a worthwhile person.
2007-06-18 07:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by theprof 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A Quiet Confidence: most people who have that confidence, men in particular, gain that from being kind, and having been treated kindly, from honesty, from a sense of self-confidence. I find myself having my breath taken away from a man of this type just walking by me. My "attraction" gets this right almost 100% of the time. When I have the opportunity to speak with such people, they are quiet natured and very nice to have spoken with...
2007-06-18 11:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely a awesome sense of humor! That gets me all the time! There is nothing sexier and nothing that makes me feel more comfortable than a outgoing guy who is funny
2007-06-18 15:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by Susy_Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the question I often hear from young people "what ATTRACTS me to him / her". That says it is out the persons control or emotional. I once heard my teacher say "don't just focus on finding Mr. (or Miss.) Right. Focus on becoming a Mr. (or Miss) Right."
2007-06-18 07:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by Lover not a Fighter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Secrecy. Some people are an open book, and you know everything about them in the first five minutes. But the secretive are like a Rubik's Cube. You have to invest more time in them to understand them and get what makes them tick, but I say it's worth it.
2007-06-18 07:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Psychosis 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some one that has a lot of goals and is doing something to achieve them.. i myself have a lot planned for my future and if i find someone with similar goals and ambitions.. i think that's attractive.
2007-06-18 07:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel z 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personality, hands down! If you cant make me laugh (or laugh at my un-funniness) than there is no way it would work. I love to just have a good time and laugh off all the little stuff.
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2007-06-18 07:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by Toria 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A subversive sense of humor. Any woman that can intellectually eviscerate someone and make it funny has a place in my cold black heart.
2007-06-18 08:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by ycats 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pheromones attract me to my fiancee like a bee!
2007-06-18 07:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by Ironic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intelligence! I know that I'm not going to have to slow down for a guy who is smart, and with luck, he's going to give ME a run for my money instead!
2007-06-18 07:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋