My friends are always saying about how they got off with so-and so, but I just nod and go 'mmhmm' cos i haven't got a clue what it means. And what is masterbaiting?? I haven't a clue!!
2007-06-18 06:59:37 · 21 answers · asked by Hamster tazzy 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Masturbating methods for women can involve just a few minutes or seconds of your time, a few fingers, and a nice comfortable place to lie down or to sit down. Masturbating for women is an art of feeling ones own ***** to relieve stress, bring on that wonderful sexual feeling of an orgasm and to create mood that brightens your day.
Masturbating is the use of one or more fingers, placed on your clit, on your ***** or in your vaginal area for sexual stimulation to achieve an orgasm. You will find that your own preferences will vary from time to time which just means that one time you might just like to touch your clit with one or two fingers and another time you are going to want to put something or your fingers in your vagina to feel the pressure that builds there.
The simplest method of masturbating if you haven't ever touched yourself before or if you are learning about how other women masturbate is to simply slip your hand into your panties, take one or two of your fingers (usually the first or the middle) and rub your clitoris. You will notice that as you gently rub your clit the area is going to swell. This is similar to the erection that a man gets when he is aroused. The blood flow to the clit is there raising the area, and this is completely normal.
You will also notice the more your rub on your clit the more you want to continue rubbing it. Usually a woman will even feel the muscles in her arm hurt but won't quit rubbing on this area because the feeling is so intense and overwhelming that you will just want to continue until you reach an orgasm.
After you have successfully masturbated (which will be anytime that you touch yourself without interruption!) you will find that an added excitement to masturbating is when you touch your wet ***** with your fingertips and then rub this wetness on your clit. You will be sensitive and overwhelmed to where you can have an orgasm in under a minute and if you keep on rubbing even when you are having an orgasm, the feeling can last for several minutes which is quite eccentric for your own body to feel this way!
2007-06-18 07:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by BigMikeOz 2 · 2⤊ 4⤋
I have to say the only decent answer on here was given by BigMikeOz. (So far up to where I was reading other peoples answers)
You asked this question & that is the answer. Iam horrorfied at some of the answeres that have been given to you .(before I put my answer in) This is a question regarding something that you want to know. You plucked up the courage to ask a question like this.
There is nothing wrong with masterbating at all. infact I read somewhere (no not one of those mags. i dont read stuff like that!!!) that there is nothing wrong with it.
You cant become pregnant , & if you were in a sexual relationship it could help you relax before nature takes is cause.
I hope this & Big Mike Oz's answers helps x
2007-06-18 09:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're things you should ask your parents about, not the yahoo masses; you won't get a proper answer off any self-respecting adult on here, meaning of course that anyone who answers with anything even close to the truth is either an extremely irresponsible adult or a teenager (ie child).
2007-06-18 07:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by Doug 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
"Getting off" means different things to different people. It can be anything from kissing, petting, or even sex. You sound early teens, so I hope your friends are just kissing.
Masterbating is defined by the dictionary as "the manual excitation of the sexual organs, most often to the point of orgasm. It can refer to excitation either by oneself or by another, but commonly refers to such activities performed alone." Talk to a trusted adult and check out http://www.scarleteen.com/
2007-06-18 07:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by Emlou 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Masturbating is when you give yourself sexual pleasure.
Getting off with someone is when you have a kiss, or whatever else with another person.
Although I'm sure your just asking silly questions, I knew all this when I was about 10, and had no Internet access.
2007-06-18 07:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Masterbaiting: All married ladies have a master in their lives; commonly known as their husband. All women nag and whinge at their husbands and this is called baiting.
Getting off is when the master nips down to the pub to escape his masterbaiter.
2007-06-18 07:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jane G 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Im gonna ignore the masturbating part but 'getting off with' where im from tends to mean 'had a good snog' or somehow became romantically involved...
2007-06-18 07:05:52 · answer #7 · answered by franevilbob 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Come on young lady- its time for you to be in bed and not worrying your pretty little head about such things- this board is not the place little girls should be asking such questions- you should talk to your mum.
2007-06-18 09:10:34 · answer #8 · answered by Ellie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have to ask this kind of question, you should talk to your mum,
yes it is embarrassing talking to your mum about this sort of stuff, but she also needs to know where you are on this subject.
2007-06-18 07:40:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You seem too young. Ask your mum little one.
2007-06-18 07:10:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋