How does one approach one's daughter about sex?

Answer 1

Having sex with one's daughter is loathsome and also illegal. You can go to prison for doing it.

Answer 2

What age?
(Update)
To teach sex education to a child, sex educators and parents must be very honest. It is important to continue talking about the subject until it has been cleared, that it is understood. If you don’t know the answer, offer to look it up together. Grab hold of the
moment: when viewing a T.V. show and a question emerges from nowhere about sexual
behavior, use it as a way of starting a conversation. Don’t pressure the child to talk about sex, simply bring up the subject when you are alone with the child. Put in simple words your thoughts when talking about oral sex and intercourse. Talk about the risks, as well as emotional pain, transmitted diseases and unintentional pregnancies. We have to
consider the children’s opinion and viewpoint. We can not address the child with the idea
of disappointing them but we should pay attention to what they have to say, understanding their nervous tension, challenges and worries. Teaching them that it is okay to wait is good. It is significant to repeat to them that sex is for adults and that there are other ways of showing feelings for someone like kissing, hugging, holding hands,
dancing, intimate talks, long walks and touching.

Answer 3

I'm assuming you're referring to "the talk" and you're not expressing an unhealthy interest in her.

How old is the daughter? Are you talking about discussing it with her yourself? If that's the case, I would strongly suggest you get a female relative (if for some reason her mother isn't around to do it) to do this for you. I did it with my niece when she was about 9-10 years old. I was pregnant and she asked some questions and that was the start of our talk.

As a last resort, there are many good books available now on this subject for kids. Spend an afternoon at the library or the bookstore checking them out, but make sure you check them out before you purchase any to be sure they cover all the subjects you want covered. Some of them stray into areas like homosexuality and oral sex that some parents aren't comfortable with and some children aren't ready to know.

Answer 4

yea this can be a hard topic to speak to your kids about,generally girls prefer to speak with a female, is there some female adult in the family who she feels close and looks up too? if so then have that person speak with her if not i think u will just have to swallow your pride and build up the courage to speak with her but make sure u plan out exactly what u are going to say,and don't make it sound like a speech do it like a normal conversation,and to make her and u more comfortable why not go for a walk with her,go to the park or something and as u walk u can speak with her make sure people are not around because it would embarrass her.Good luck

Answer 5

You ask them how much they know-- you ask them to be honest-- then you tell them about what they need to know-- such as STDs Pregnancy and Preventatives(bc pill,condoms, etc.)

At the end of the converstaion depending on how old your daughter is you tell them what exactly it is you want them to do. If yo think she is too young or she isnt ready tell her I dont want you to have sex and reasoning should not be "your too young" or "your not ready" she wont listen-- you tell her that if this guy is worth it then he can wait until she is sure

Answer 6

i am assuming that you want to have "the talk" with her as opposed to the other way your question can be taken.


depending upon her age.

first thing you have to do is sit her down and find out what she knows. she may have mis-information that needs to be cleared up. if you find out what she knows, then you figure out how much she NEEDS to know now. she may not need all the details from you. find some good books that deal with her age group and knowledge level.

you might want to give her a book or two and let her know that you guys will chat after she has read them.

Answer 7

Just use a straight forward approach, she will be embarrassed but it needs to be done.

Answer 8

She would rather talk to a women or not talk at all and pick it up off the streets

Answer 9

well its better coming from a women .wife..your sister etc
if you do not like that ask the school if they have explained the subject...good luck

Answer 10

Are you wanting to discuss sex, or do you want sex? Your question has many possible answers.