2007-06-18 05:15:45 · 27 answers · asked by scorpio99 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I will say yes! We are not much of convenience but we sure did not love each other when I got prego. Our relationship was more of total strangers together to share lonliness. Now, after 2 years and a beautiful baby, WOW! Things have totally changed. But I do think there is hope. You will need to do a lot on your part to win him over, it will not just happen by puffing! It is a great effort and if he is worth it, give it all you've got!
2007-06-18 05:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by Mary Laurita 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really all depends on the future. Why do you want to marry without love? What is the reason?
Maybe in time you will come to love each other, on the other hand you may come to hate each other.
Can you not wait until you either fall in love or fall out before making up your mind?
Perhaps it`s an `arranged marriage?` In which case there is no way out - except doing a runner, and we all know now what happens to arranged marriages when one wants to back out.
From your image I guess you are white and it isn`t an `arranged marriage,` in which case put plan 3 into action and wait and see.
2007-06-18 05:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by Montgomery B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is something that grows over time. It involves mutual respect, honesty and open communication. If the two of you are willing to put in the time, perhaps this marriage can grow into love. I'm sure there have been many cases where two people have fallen in love, even though they married for convenience or arranged for cultural reasons. Again, is this what both of you want?
2007-06-18 05:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by llselva4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read somewhere that they work very well because both parties come with no expectations. Relationships that start with love can be disappointed when the passion fades and the partner turns out to be human after all, whereas in arranged marriages, love can grow and you will grow together so no surprises.
2007-06-21 04:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly! True love starts with caring. Mature love isn't about bells and whistles and sparks and fireworks (although a little of that sure doesn't hurt!)
Companionship can turn into love. Many arranged marriages eventually turn into loving marriages.
2007-06-18 05:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by browneyedgirl623 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell. I believe people grow on each other the more they get to know one another. As with all love it grows with compassion patience and kindness. Good Luck!!
2007-06-18 06:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by ohnyrican 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course i my family has been with prearranged marriages and they have all turned out to eventually love eachother, eventually with you two together and in the same house something will develop!
2007-06-18 05:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sense unrequieted love.
Don't expect too much from him, let nature take its course. Although a rampant sex life can't hurt, at least if he never loves you, you've had lots of sex and that is always good.
If it doesn't happen, I hope you have a prenuptial agreement.
2007-06-18 05:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by xenobyte72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a chance, although the arranged marriage reportedly works, this is not the same as a marriage of convenience. Personally, I would feel resentful in the end.
2007-06-18 05:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by Ylang-Ylang 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes. Love at first sight, and love by sexual attraction aren't the only ways love can develop. Even though they may be the most romantic.
2007-06-18 05:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by Barbara Doll to you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋