I have a really mean sister in law that just ignores me and talks behind my back. I want to get back at her and people say kill her with kindness....can I have some examples?
2007-06-18 04:26:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That means to really be nice and do anything you can to get them to like you. You are not her business. I would tell her in front of others that whatever you say or do is your business alone and that you would appreciate if she would tend to her own problems. No argument can stand to that fact. That will put her in her place. With kindness.
2007-06-18 04:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you start baking cookies for her, complimenting her on her outfits, or hair, make her feel special in lots of ways... there are some examples. Tell her stories that your husband told her about when they were kids that compliment her in some way. What can she say mean about that??
2007-06-18 11:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by tickertock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be so nice you make said person guilty and they feel like doing suicide. Be ignorantly nice, dont notice if youre sister law thinks you look stupid, just be waaaaaaaaay nice so shell start feeling overly guilty
2007-06-18 12:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by Bug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be really nice and do everything for her etc thats what it means, but i would just play her game, and ignore her, be formal but not overly nice, keep contact to a minimumn, and keep her guessing. dont let her know that your angry about it, just smile and be plesant, and above all NO SUCKING UP!!!!
=bECS= http://greatozdebate.forumsvibe.com
2007-06-18 11:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
they will fall over dead because you are being so nice. compliment her, say stuff she wouldnt hear from you, be really nice to her even if its hard to do.
2007-06-18 11:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋