Without being homophobic are you comfortable around homosexuals ?

Question

I'm not, i dont have anything against them but the same as there allowed there opinion on things im allowed mind and i dont think its natural, your view ?

a bi curious issue lol, see this is what i hate, you cant just plain not like homosexuals without bein "in the closet", get a life. People act like like its fine and dandy when 95% of normal guys dont like them.

btw am soundin homophobic, the reason i feel uncomfortable around them is the fact there so vocal about being gay and some have innuendo's. I dont really like that. If your gay your gay fine, its your choice but not everyone wants to hear about your sex life and how hard it was "coming out".

Magic D being straight isnt natural, thats right. Let everything in the world come to an end because being straight isnt natural, ok then.

Tegarst for sure i knew that. I understand what your meaning. Then again, spiders eat there partners. Lions kill one anothers young as do many animals. If there is a sick animal in a pack it will be killed. Monkey's of course eat one another, just different species. The animals do it so therefore its fine and natural doesnt really hold any weight.

Answer 1

i totally agree with everything you've said so far,that is exactly the way that i feel.

what i also dont like about gay guys is when they try to convince you that being gay is not wrong...........it might not be wrong for you but it is for me,you dont have to convince anyone that your lifestyle is ok. im not gonna verbally abuse you or treat you differently but i dont like views being forced on me either.people should be free to live their lives how they want to without having to convert people to their way of thinking.

Answer 2

Jay, I am a straight male and to answer your question, no I do not have any problem being comfortable around homosexuals. Or anyone else for that matter. I do not think your question displays bi-curiosity at all. With all due respect I do believe it displays a degree of shallowness. I don't enquire as to the sexuality of those I meet or see socially. I may find out when I get to know them but it makes no difference to me at all what their sexuality entails. I feel the same way regardless of whether my friends are homosexual or heterosexual. I'm interested in my friends themselves, not their sex lives.

As for your last little comment. Do you have any factual source for your statement that 95% of "normal guys" don't like them? I thought not. That comment about "normal guys" pretty well demonstrates your ignorance about the issue and your bigotry.

Answer 3

As a lesbian, at times I feel uncomfortable with human beings in general. I don't find groping in public places appropriate. I don't find causing a scene over a lost boyfriend appropriate either.

In fact, there are straight people that do these things just as often as the gay community. People are going to be people. If you can be open-minded and live freely among people, then you shouldn't feel UNCOMFORTABLE around "homosexuals."

Most homosexuals are a lot like heterosexuals. They walk funny, they talk funny, some even smell funny, but generally they can all be good people.

Most possibly you've run into a few of our more animated community members, but they too, aren't harmful.

Hopefully you one day just open your mind and realize that no matter who anyone loves, they are simply still PEOPLE.

Answer 4

Both of my parents were heterosexual, my present age is over 60, I am a male/female Intersexual / Gay, my Genes / DNA are XXXY. I was as an Intersexual / Gay before birth, I was born with a penis so the doctor put me down as male

When we get a cure for heterosexual people to stop being heterosexuals, then at that time kids who are born with my Genes / DNA should be given the right to chose what sex we want to be.

All people will be judged as equal.

Answer 5

wow what a stereo-typing, homophobic question. Who are these gays you speak of, that apparently do nothing but hang around straight people talking about their sex lives and how hard it was to come out? I almost never talk about either, and don't really know any other gay people who make a habit of talking regularly about those subjects at the average social gathering. I think your 95% remark, refers to you and your neanderthal friends. Maybe you should get out and socialize with some mature people.

Answer 6

Yes, I am extremely comfortable around homosexuals ,I have many friends who are gay never had a problem with someones else's sexual preference.

You have to ask yourself why should it bother you what anyone gets up to in their own bedroom. The answer is it makes no difference at all. I think you're perfectly entitled to feel how you do as long as you don't vent Angy towards homosexuals.

Answer 7

I have no problems working with homosexuals or heterosexuals, your sexuality is part of you, it's not what defines you. Everyone is allowed to be themselves and I'd rather have people be real with me than totally fake. I am who I am, love me or hate me that your choice, but I'm not going to change, and I don't expect you too. I do expect tolerance though, as I give that as well as respect to everyone, or at least try too! :)

Edit- Yeah you can dislike homosexuals and not be in the closet or bisexual. I don't care if you hate me, I would just hope that you would be tolerant of us. Honestly it's really difficult for me to work with a group of heterosexual men, as they look down on me, aren't always nice, and for some reason think I want them (yeah I don't!). For the most part I get intimidated in those situations and it shouldn't have to be that way. Gay people aren't trying to "convert" straight people or anything like that. Funny that you mention you don't want to hear about us and our stories, I listen to heterosexuals talk about their sexcapades all the tell! It's not a thrill listening to anyones conquests/personal experiences... You don't have to like us, but accept us as people! Take care! :)

Answer 8

i don't strategies except human beings do not positioned it precise in my face. i would not brazenly snog my boyfriend in a hectic highway or around fairly some human beings and would not sense delicate seeing any variety of couple doing the same. With the 'organic' assertion, that is been proved which you won't be able to help being gay and it particularly is interior of particular genes so for some, it particularly is organic.

Answer 9

I feel the same its there choice. I dont judge or even give it a second thought. I dont feel anything around them because i have acepted that fact and put it in the back of my head. try not to think about it so much. You might not be homophobic but the thought of them doing anything is well sometimes like when u think of your parents or grandparents getting it on just dont sike yourself out.

Answer 10

I'm comfortable around homosexuals, but there are still individual people who make me very uncomfortable. There is one guy I work with who I get along with just great, but his man-wife/life partner used to give me the freaking creeps.
It was mainly because the guy is like 6'5, 350+ lbs. to my 5'9", 145 lbs. self, and then he would look me up and down and say "HI Ricky" in a very flirtatious voice.
Then I went and hung out with them outside of work, had a couple of beers and shot some pool, and after having talked to him I'm perfectly comfortable now. I guess it just seemed at first that this huge gay guy was going to hold me down with a finger and rape me-and thinking you're going to get raped probably makes everyone a bit uneasy.
I guess what I'm saying is that you should probably try to get to know some gay people a little better, they'll grow on you eventually.

Answer 11

I'm fine around homosexuals. My best friend is gay as is my nephew.

I don't like it when people wear their sexual orientation like a badge however. If the only thing that makes them makes them interesting is their sexuality then I find them very sad.

BTW if you think it's unnatural you are homophobic, and that's not an opinion. That's a definition.