and that person was a friend of the husbands?
2007-06-18 01:41:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would tell my husband of his friend flirting or attempting to flirt. I actually had this happen to me and it bothered me greatly - I told my husband of it and he spoke with his friend. His friend thought he was being nice and trying to include me in conversation (as I didn't know anyone at this event). When my husband explained that it made me uncomfortable, he apologized and we're all friends now.
2007-06-18 01:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by Courtney H 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to be very cautious with flirting from people that know you are married. Normaly they are testing the response from you. If you flirt back or seem to like the flirting, they will flirt a little more and try to see if they can go a little further with the flirting. Little by little, they try to get more and more out of you and before you know it, they touch you someplace they should not or in a way they should not, they try and kiss you or maybe the just flat out ask you to do something that they should not and then things get bad. The best thing to do if you value your marriage is to shut the flirting down and let them know that you are not interested in being flirted with by anyone but your husband. I have a very good friend that his wife is a horrible flirt and loves it when guys flirt with her and she even thinks it okay that guys touch her. Her husband does not think any of this is okay and they have argued about it many times and still she does not do anything to stop the guys from flirting with her or touching her. She has no idea that he is setting himself up so that he can divorce her. Within the next month, he says she will come home one day and none of his stuff will be there, just the divorce papers. I hate to see them come to this, but she just does not give a rip about how he feels with all the guys flirting and touching her, so he is going to make it so it is no longer his business.
2007-06-18 09:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell my husband. Sounds like a creepy guy that isn't a true friend to my husband. Let it go, and the tables may turn on you and he accuse you of being the one that flirted with him.
2007-06-18 09:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by ~Casper~ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is quite serious. You need to let this guy know you don't appreciate him flirting with you. He is disrespecting your husband in the worst way and you cannot allow such behavior. If, after you've set him straight, he continues the behavior, tell your husband what he's doing.
2007-06-18 08:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
, I flirt to get some were. I like a good looking woman and I like sex I'm out there look for you I'm not a bad man .If your married you tell me I'll leave you alone.
2007-06-18 11:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by Al S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing, some people are just natural flirts and don't realize their flirtatiousness can be misconceived by some. Just take it in all fun and nothing more. Unless of course you want their to be more to it.
2007-06-18 08:48:16 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just goes to show you that he does not value the friendship with you husband, nor does he respect the vow you made to your husband, nor does he RESPECT you. Tell your husband just what is going on.
2007-06-18 09:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by sylviavnpttn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some guys and girls are flirty whether the other person married or not, looks like that friend of yours has a hidden desire with you, but will you allow him or not?
2007-06-18 08:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by lizclairboring 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stay away from them, it is not good to get involved with a married person
2007-06-18 09:07:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't respond to them. If it were a stranger, a little flirting is harmless.
2007-06-18 08:46:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋