What is the best thing to do if you r unable to marry the girl you loved ? SUICIDE ?

Question

What is the best thing to do if you r unable to marry the girl you loved like hell and she marries someone else ??? Well i m in that situation .. I think suicide is the best answer !

Answer 1

Love is only good if it is two sided. If you love her, but she does not return that love, it is infatuation.

Suicide is definitely not the answer. Instead, look for a girl as a best friend and if it is right it will turn into love. Then you will truly be building a relationship on a firm foundation.

Take care,
Troy

Answer 2

No suicide is not the best answer. What will that do for you or anyone else? Think about it. The future, your future. This has happened to millions of people. You will love again and probably better the next time. If she married someone else that may mean that she was not meant for you. There is someone else waiting for you who will love you better and who you will love better. Just wait. Think about how many people there are in the world. Get out of your small circle and find out who else is out there. Since you have a computer that should be easy to do. Stay away from places that will remind you of that girl and try not to go where she will be. Get involved in a job or find some new interest. Travel if you can afford it. It helped me when I was in your situation. Travel, work, movies and books will help. Forget the suicide because thats for cowards. The girl wouldn't respect you for that anyway. The pain you feel will go away.

Answer 3

Of course suicide is NOT the answer. It is NEVER the answer to anything. There are many other girls out there, and this will not be the only time you fall in love. Everyone feels sad when they lose their love, but not everyone thinks the answer is suicide. Most people know that life gets better after a while, and that we will fall in love again, with someone who loves us as much as we love them. ou will hurt for a while, but one day soon the sun will shine for you again and you will see that life is beautiful. There are many people who do love you, and if you still feel that suicide is the answer, go and speak to them, and ask them what they would feel like if they lost you. Let me assure you, the pain you are going through now, is NOTHING compared to the pain they will feel if you do decide to kill yourself. If you feel you cannot get over this on your own, please go and speak to a therapist, so that you can get help. One day you will look back on this period, and will wonder why it was so traumatic for you, because you WILL find the right woman to marry.

Answer 4

I think that if you are truly unhappy in the body you're and have the opportunity to be what you feel is right than you should.You"re 15 and if your girlfriend can't accept you for who you really are and is willing to let religion get in the way of love maybe she's not the best person to be with. You might end up feeling even more trapped than you already are and eventually the love that was there will turn to resentment and hatred. You need to be around people who will support you. If you decide to transition than you will need that support because there will be people who will try and break you down and wanna hurt you and treat you badly over something you can't control.So what i think you should do is talk to your girlfriend and explain to her that just because she's in a relationship with you doesn't make her a lesbian. Tell her how you feel if she decides she can't be with you remember that decision is not about you while you play a part in it , it's mainly her and her level of comfort and her letting her religion help make her decision.It'll hurt for awhile if she can't be with you but you'll most likely end up really damaged if you don't stay true yourself. You'll die a little on the inside and eventually end up wanting to die on the outside. Than you'll find that your relationship really won't be worth it if you're dead.The reason I believe that transgendered people end up killing them selves is because they don't have the support they need. So get a GOOD support system and you should be fine. Good luck kid.

Answer 5

As much as you are hurting right now, and can't even fathom living without her, you most definitely can. I can empathize with you. I once felt the same as you, but luckily I didn't do anything drastic and took it one day at a time. It did take me a few years to move on, but then I finally did. Once I let go of him and let myself live again, I met a really great guy. Then I realized why the other relationship didn't work out, because if I had married him, I wouldn't have met my husband. You can find happiness again when you let yourself, but if you kill yourself, you will never know who could be waiting for you around the corner, that now will never get to meet you.
One thing I learned from that part of my life, was that I don't NEED another person to complete me. I am a whole person whether or not I am in a relationship and as much as I love my husband, if he left me today, I know I will wake up tomorrow. You have to be a whole you before you can be in a stable relationship again. You should never give another person that kind of power over you. Love them like you love yourself, but never more than yourself, or you will lose yourself.

Answer 6

listen dude! yr sounding like a complete idiot here now. If she really loved you, she woudn't have marry the other person. I know how forceful can some parents be, but she still obeyed n marry the other person. Why are you taking it soo hard? There's so many other fishes in the sea? Maybe this wasn;t meant to be. Try occupying yourself by doing some useful things, perhaps
look after the family. Work hard, become someone if your not . Get on ur feet. Stop sounding like a fool. Get Real! Get a Life!

she's gonna grow into the life she's got into. You are just going to die? Pfft! Shameful!

Answer 7

SUICIDE can NEVER be the answer to this. For us christians, suicide is a mortal sin......you'l burn in hell if you do that. Not marrying the girl of your life does not end your world....i know the feeling,its hard but you should face it.....there are more better girls out there. Go out with friends and unwind or concentrate in your work of studies, thru this you will be preoccupied then eventually forget this sad chapter of your life....most of all, pray.....pray and pray.its the best thing to do for now!!!!the pain will fade in due time!!!!!!

Answer 8

Suicide may "seem" like an option, but it's not.

Is she worth dying for?

Is she worth giving up every day you have from now until the day you do die because of how you feel right this minute?

No one can make your choices for you, but you're going to have to find a way to accept that she is not the one and move on.

Answer 9

Um - I think suicide would be the opposite of the best thing to do.

You'll meet someone else. Hard to believe now - but it's true. If you opt out of this world now you'll never find out.

Answer 10

Suicide is for cowards. If you're truly that weak (and not just trying to "shock" everyone on here), I can see why this girl did not want to spend the rest of her life with you.
She has moved on, you need to do the same. Stop obsessing over this one opportunity that has gone unfulfilled. There are countless more opportunities out there for you, every single day of your life.