i have only just realise that i am a bysexual, i have alwyas had fealings that o dont understand about women, but untill i came out and faced what i was, i felt like i was a freek or summat, how do i tell my parents that their 14yr old girl is a bysexual and that i like girls aswell as boys? please help, i feel like im betraying them by not telling them lv Chavin_it_riz x x x
2007-06-18
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Society & Culture
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➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
14 is awfully young to pigeon-hole yourself. Why not wait a few years before you decide for sure? If you are bisexual, you still will be then. If you're not, you'll save yourself an awkward moment if you had told them now, and another one at a later time when you'd have to say, "Never mind". Either way, you're still the daughter of your parents, and nothing will have changed.
2007-06-18 01:23:02
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answered by Ralfcoder 7
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It's okay I understand, I know what your going through Im the same age as you but I told my parents when I was 12. But anyways If your parents love you enough then they'll accept you and your sexuality. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself.If you know in your heart that you truly feel that way about GUYZ/GIRLZ then just go for it. The only one that can hold you back is yourself not your friends, parents or anyone else. But whether you tell them or not it's your call. No one can force you to do or be anything you don't wanna do or be. But ponder on this for a while and I hope I was any help to.
2007-06-18 11:22:37
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answered by Miss klumzie 2
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you are too young to truly determine if you are really bi or not. I would say wait a little before you truly decide to come out to your parents. Besides if i was your parent i would be more worried about your spelling, dear. Spell check
2007-06-18 10:16:56
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answered by reinfield666 2
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1-You are underage, ur mental growth is not completed so will not and should not have presmission from ur parents of sex.
2-It is immoral to do and this is not natural.
3-You need to go to psyciatric to tell him/her ur problem.
Same sex marriage or sex are the same crime ppl of LOT (Peace be upon him) used to do, Allah destroyed them, Now u can find their remains in Dead Sea. Read Holy Quran’s (Surrah-e-Unkabut Verse Number 29)
4-True natural religion not allow this,any normal human,even for that matter not any animal do this.
5-You need to change ur friends make good friends, u r just in early teens this age is very tender, & bad ppl can make kids of this age bad as well.
From;
Khi, Pakistan.
2007-06-18 08:25:03
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answered by Anonymous
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just sit them down and tell them the truth, your parents should still love you for you, your their child and thats what counts if your happy with your life then they should be there to support you no matter what
2007-06-18 08:30:23
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answered by BOOTZ 4
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Just sit them down together and tell them. Their your parents, so they will probably learn to accept you for who you are.
2007-06-18 08:14:42
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answered by runningaddict01 2
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They have probably guessed by now. I would tell them anyway. Good luck.
2007-06-18 08:14:27
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answered by Anthony F 6
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Choose men or women it is much easier. I know it is hard I am bisexual too.
2007-06-18 15:03:16
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answered by A Journey 5
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MY SON CAME AND SAT ME DOWN AND WE HAD A HEART TO HEART TALK
SO MY ANSWERE IS SIT DOWN AND TALK TO THE PARENT YOU ARE CLOSE TO AND HAVE A TALK...
2007-06-18 08:34:56
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answered by shayhi 4
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