I'm only 14 and my boyfriend is 15.I know it sounds kinda weird but me and my boyfriend already been talking about having jits and living together when we get older. He was always telling me i was gona be the one for him and i thoght so too.Me and him were in love with each other!!( i lost my virginity to him)and i couldnt get over him!!!
He always told me he loved me and i always said i love him too because i really did. It was in 8th grade like in the end of the school year and there was some other girl that liked him a whole lot... The thing is after he just got a cell i dont even much know what he be doing ..i cant tell my mom i go with him im just too scared and after i heard that the most worsest thing happend ..i couldnt even call him my cell phone broked and i havent gotten a new one yet and my mom keeps hiding the house phone and i dont know were it is!!!
I used my mom's cell phone one day and i called my bestfriend because she was a witness she saw what happend she told me she was with the girl or whatever and my boyfriend... and she said he was mad flirting with her and all them stuff...I heard so many stuff from different people but i didnt believe them because i never thought he would do such thing after i told him i loved him and i would always trust him..But i just realize maybe he taking advantage of me..That **** ******* burns he wouldnt be faithful ..but i really like him but then i cant see him this summer kinda and i just dont know what to tell him,..
Then i heard he cheated on me with the girl he told her he broked up with me than last week she called him and broke up with my boyfriend cuz her ex told her he was still goin out with ME!! i went so crazy and he acted all cool like if he didnt do nothing and once again i believed him!!! but now i know its true!! i just know it for real ...This saturday im goin to DOMINICAN REPUBLIC 4 3 weekz and when i come back evry1 its tellin me if he cheated on me ..he would cheat even way more when i leave .... i feel so heartbroken so dam heatbroken i always think abou him i always wanted it to be so perfect like all cool and st8 but i guess not...that ugly hoe ruined evrything but its his fault too...
I dnt know what to do but he always saying he loves me and he wouldnt do such thing but he hurt me so many times but i lost it to him thats the thing and im in love with him but it seems he dont care but he be saying he does but then why do he be talking to other girls now is so different i dont wanna break up with him but i dont know what to tell him ..he split my heart in half and i been telling him and he keeps saying he sorry but its all still the same i just wish he was faithful now i feel so stupid for loosing my virginity I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!
2007-06-18 00:24:48 · 10 answers · asked by ZZ F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't feel studpid. He does not love you. Both of you are too young to know whqt true love is. Find a nice guy that will treat you better. If he cheated on you once, he will do it again.
Kick him to the curb and get out there and show him what he has lost!!
2007-06-18 00:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen hun ur 14 this is what us adults call puppy love u really dont love him u just think u do, youll get over him in no time, youv been played you learned ur lesson (i hope) and now is the time to move on, ur going 2 DR for 3-4 weeks and thats the perfect time to get over him by the second week u wont even remember him and send him 4 a loop and dump him b4 u leave so you dnt have to come back 2 this BS, and u can start over new when u get back and obviously u attract guys so dnt worry ull find another jus bcarfull wth the sex thing, i say ur 2 young 2 do it but if u must use a condom, bcarful of what guys u decide 2 date and b safe
2007-06-18 00:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by Diana D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 14, don't worry about it. I went out with a guy who sounds kind of the same, and he likes the fact that your suffering, trust me. It makes him feel good when he cheats on you, and if you notice, he doesn't even try to hide it, and then tries to win you back! This is where you have to be strong! Stand up to him, and start telling him everything you don't like about him, really knock his confidence down! He'll be so shocked he won't know what to say! Trust me, I did it, and it worked like a charm, girl! And then refuse to talk to him, and you'll see that you can get over it much faster! I promise this will work! And if your best friend was with the girl he cheated on you with and him, she doesn't sound very much like a best friend to me! Dump her too! Maybe you'll meet some hot guy in the Dominican Republic! Good luck!
2007-06-18 02:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him go. He isn't worth the time if he's going to choose someone else over you. Who would do that? I wouldn't if I met someone like you. You sound sweet and I'm sure you wouldn't cheat. Don't worry, this is his karma, it's all part of his choice, he made his choice. Let him live with it. Move on, find someone way better than he could ever be. Btw I'm guessing it's long distance, so search locally or just stay single for a while.
2016-04-01 03:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it,you deserve better than him,if he cheats on you now he will always do it.Find you another boy friend,there a lot more boys out there.One thing you don't do in a relationship is give in to sex or tell them you love them to early,most people like a challenge.so play hard to get.they will respect you more.and I hope your on some form of birth control or was using a condom when you were having sex with your boy friend,STDs are very real.There's some that will destroy your life and if you have a cheater for a boy friend the more likely you with get an STD.So forget him,later you will wonder what you seen in him.
((Many blessings)
2007-06-18 00:46:32 · answer #5 · answered by margaret moon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not stupid the choice you made may have been but not you. You need to find some one else because you are not happy right now and you wont be as long as you have hime in your life. He will keep doing the same thing even if you have kids together or not or even if you live together. You would be better off finding some who likes you and wants to be with you for you and not what you can give him.
2007-06-18 01:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by Jason R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** happens. lucky your not pregnant. dump him and move on. go to school and learn about sentences. most of this crap you wrote is unreadable and makes no sense at all.
2007-06-18 00:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by ROB W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your friends place and cry there; it might feel good.
2007-06-18 00:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by bornonaplatein1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unmetured teenagers
2007-06-18 00:28:29 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is sad.
2007-06-18 00:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋