I'll try and make this short. Everytime she says something it is always negative. She upsets the kids, her family, and I. She sends me emails all the time asking me if I have found other women when I haven't done anything of the sort. She always says things like nobody cares for you. She doesn't ask anymore she just orders everyone around. Frankly her negative attitude has gotten me and my son so down that we don't remember how to smile. I don't have many friends anymore. What do you think I should do? I would appreciate answers from people who have expierence in this or similar type situations. Since we live overseas counseling is not really an available option to me. Anyway, it feels good just to get this off my chest if nothing else.
2007-06-18 00:00:23 · 9 answers · asked by dave f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Divorce
2007-06-18 00:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know why some people are this way, they are the people who are never happy, there like always the half-empty type person, instead of the half full type, see there's always a up side to any situation, not always a worse side, some how shes become that person, did something happening her childhood to make her this way?has did your life together start out happy? i am a half full person,life is good and I'm always happy, nothing has ever really gotten me down.i always try to find good in everything and everybody, i believe my faith has made me this kind of person?so i guess what I'm trying to say, is try church, if your not already going,and if your already going, get more involved, it will help your son to , to be around more uplifting people.all you can do with her, is keep trying, good luck and god bless
2007-06-18 00:16:17 · answer #2 · answered by debbie d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello there i had the same thing with my wife of 23 years marriage. we have one child. the wife was cranky, always snapping at us. no friends [she says my fault] my daughter would not bring friends home fear of being embarrassed.we separated i have the kid it stemmed down to life was passing her by she wanted more. its been a year now we have separated. she moved on her own and she found out life is not so easy. try talking to her about a trial separation you need time apart let her go on her own.you keep the home and child going.in my case the wife found a boyfriend we talk now and then but my life and my 17 year old daughter are much more happier now with no stress.i dont know your money situation
im the only one that worked .now she had to find a job and support herself. now she admits life was good when we were together. if you like to talk some more im at nolanl@rogers.com . i can relate to your situation.
2007-06-18 00:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have become finished of resentment in the direction of Your spouse. You the two are marching in the direction of not spending Your lives mutually. So be practice to not replace your spouse, in view which you will not replace her. you will the two settle for her or unload Her. Assuming that Your spouse is the way you defined Her, she would be waiting to desert You some day once you not tolerate her irrational habit or proceed to look after her the way She desires to. you will could permit Her pass . Supper guy. while you're searching for validation to offload her, you acquire it . in case you have been attempting to point how unjust the placement you reside with You made an excellent presentation. The question for You is how mush of an excellent place style do you decide on for to be for you newborn.? and how satisfied do you decide on for to be. Get shifting interior the the main suitable option path , you comprehend the path. ok
2016-11-25 20:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can say that sometimes one can be really depressed about something that they don't care to talk about and sometime result to lashing out at everybody else around them. And may be she needs to see a doctor to talk to him and tell him what she's feeling and he can put her on some type of medication for it. Good Luck!
2007-06-18 00:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and have a serious talk with her about how she is affecting the children. Tell her that if she is that unhappy, she should just leave instead of making everyone else miserable.
2007-06-18 00:04:43 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is something under it all that is bothering her. most of the time it is something she thinks has happened or something that she has done that she feels guilty about something she has done that she just doesn't want you to know about. ether way it's eating her up in side which is affecting how she acts to others. my advice is that you talk to her. let her know how you and your family feel, and listen to her.
2007-06-18 00:13:14 · answer #7 · answered by flubersnign 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her *** outta your house! or sue her for bad upbringing or children abusing/torturing cause always say foul language for the purpose of teaching children to become bad!! and you are sure win cause all your kid is Witnesses to this foul language and bla bla!
just divorce her and ignore all her stupid e-mail!lol
2007-06-18 00:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called marriage ,,
she must have some real issues,like women problems ,depression look for the symptoms she will need help
2007-06-18 00:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by matty60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋