No one should be proud of a gay child any more than you should be proud of a drug addict or criminal.
If your child is gay that means you sinned as a parent and you and the child must both ask God's forgiveness.
2007-06-17 21:17:47
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answered by Anonymous
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well i dont know if parents r crossing their fingers to the hope that their child will turn out gay, I guess rebelious parents maybe. But I don't even think gay parents want their child to turn out gay, I know I wouldn't. Only for the fact that life would be a lot harder for them growing up. If we lived in a world where gays where as widely accepted as blacks and women are now then I wouldn't care one way or the other.
2007-06-18 00:42:26
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answered by RainKid 2
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I think that parents of gay kids probably cry when they find out their kid is gay because they realize that their kid's gonna have a hell of a hard time trying to just live their lives. Especially in a place where people aren't always so accepting of any one that's even remotely different to them and the fact that people resort to violence makes the whole situation even worse.
Well parents who actually care about their kids might react in that manner.
But after that reaction they might be proud that their kid is brave enough to be themselves particularly in such a judgmental, bigoted and spiteful environment.
2007-06-19 14:20:23
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answered by c m 3
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Any parent who is worth their salt is proud of their children, gay or straight. I happen to be a lesbian. It took me years to realize that. I played the straight game and had children before I realized it. I don't regret having children, but I do regret growing up with family that suppressed what I truly am. If my teenage children were to realize one day that they were gay and decided to come out and live openly, I would be very proud and supportive of them.
2007-06-17 23:25:42
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answered by Anonymous
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they are proud of their kids. no parent is really proud of a childs sexuality, gay, straight, or bi.
go to
pflag.org, pflag.com
parents and friends of lesbians and gays
2007-06-17 23:39:27
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answered by Anonymous
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I think that they can't be proud.But this doesn't mean that you are not their kid anymore.They will accept you, but they will never say:'Hey, I'm very proud of you for being gay.' Don't worry, there are a lot like you.You're not the only one.Good luck in your life.
2007-06-17 21:23:39
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answered by ItsyBitsy 2
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well other parents are proud to her son future to be a gay someday but some parent's do not like it
2007-06-17 21:15:07
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answered by tinzie 1
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I would be proud of a child who had the strength and courage to be openly gay.
2007-06-18 05:14:34
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answered by I'll Take That One! 4
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One of my friends has always been camp, since i can remember anyways, I always knew he was gay and do did his mum.. yeah, she's proud of him being gay it's his choice at the end of the day, if I turned out gay my mum wouldn't care, I'm still me! x
2007-06-17 21:14:18
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answered by Mwah-ox 1
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My gay "boyfriend"'s mother did a complete turnaround on this. For years, she did not approve of him being a homosexual. Then, her husband died, leaving her a widow. NOW, it suits her purposes quite nicely, having her gay son right next door, at her beck and call, 24/7! It wouldn't quite be that way if he had a "real" girlfriend, much less a wife. I think mama is VERY content, without all that "competition" for his time and attention. Of course, I was much happier before, when she had a husband to share her life with, and wanted her son to be "normal". At one time, she would have LOVED it if he had forsaken his gayness to be with ME!
But now that her circumstances have changed, mama seems to be positively BEAMING with pride over the fact that she has her gay son stuck to her like glue!!!
2007-06-17 21:49:30
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answered by Anonymous
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Well, I'm glad that the nephew I support is gay. I won't have to worry about any unexpected pregnancies turning up. (Unlike the straight nephews that I didn't raise....)
2007-06-17 21:45:20
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answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4
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