I am 23...and I am ready to have a steady boyfriend...and ready to find someone that I can spend the rest of my life with....I don't go to bars...and all of my girlfriends are pregnant and married...where do I meet people??....
2007-06-17 19:03:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yea don't try to meet people in bars or clubs, those relationships are usually short term. Avoid churches too because they're usually full of hypocrits. I think your question isn't 'where' to meet them but how do you approach someone and hit it off. Everywhere you go you have an opportunity to meet someone, capitalize on the moment and take the initiative.
Nice guys are always shy, and fortune favors the brave.
2007-06-17 19:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by Experienced Male named Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go to bars? How bizarre! I met my husband there, but neither of us were looking for much. It just happened and that's how it should happen!
Anyways, there are plenty of places to meet people. Do you drink coffee? Coffee shops, lame ya sure. Work? A bookstore? Do you have any hobbies? Are you willing to take some classes or get involved in some community programs? Volunteer somewhere. Heck, there's always church if you get desperate, but most church men are not marriage material in my book.
Don't worry about meeting 'the one', just casually date and have fun and if it takes off, it takes off.
2007-06-18 02:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by qwertatious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can meet someone anywhere, you just have to make yourself available (not desperate but available). It wouldn't be a good ideal to "settledown" with someone you meet at a bar, so that could be a good thing you not going to them. A lot of church's have social retreats for single adults, if you are into those things.
2007-06-18 02:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by bigcountry_tn44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Church is a good place to start. Do volunteering - any kind. Take classes, do a hobby. The best thing is to get involved in your community, and work on yourself, and being the best woman you can be -- then you will attract a decent kind of man.
2007-06-18 08:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well instead of the bars go to coffee houses or bookstores. Join a gym.
2007-06-18 02:17:25 · answer #5 · answered by maverick29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a church, join a gym, go to school, learn a new hobby or a sport, volnteer, get a job.
2007-06-18 02:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet people through other people. You know, that networking kind of sh-t. I hate it, to be honest... I don't think guys are as good at that stuff.
2007-06-18 02:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy above me---hes wrong def not internet...go to places you like-ur sure to meet someone with things in common
2007-06-18 02:46:42 · answer #8 · answered by gwood5turbo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jamie. the best place to meet what you are looking for is in church that my honest opion?
2007-06-18 02:11:14 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COME WITH ME I WANT TO MARRY YOU
2007-06-18 02:33:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋