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2007-06-17 18:53:13 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

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No. I lost mine when I was 14, I just made myself aware of the risks, and made sure I used protection. If you think you are ready, then go for it. Just make sure you are doing it for yourself and not someone else. Good luck!

2007-06-17 19:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I was 15 but I was with the guy a year b4 and 2 years after we had sex. Be sure it's a nice guy that wont leave you the next day or spread rumors that your a whore or slut. I am 21 now and married and have a 2 1/2 year old baby girl. I have only been with 2 guys in my life, My first and my husband. But I was ready. You have to be ready and know that the guy is the right one because you will remember him forever because he was your first. Also it hurts the first time so be prepared and I would wait if I were you, I sometimes wish I'd waited for when I met my husband. also my friend that is 15 is currently 5 months pregnant by a 16 year old boy, you think they can afford a child? and they used protection but it failed. Think about that.

2007-06-21 11:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by mysticmary 3 · 0 0

I tend to say no. but I really have to urge you not to.

human life expectancy has almost tripled in the past 2000 years. Our bodies are designed to have sex at what we consider "young" to ensure a healthy birth process and enough time to raise a child. 15 was ripe, cause when you turned 18, you were considered a past the stage of a full grown adult. only about 15 years left till you died.
So it was necessary to breed at a young age and alot.
Thats why we start having the "urge" when we hit puberty.
its due to a rush a chemicals (hormones) in your body. They are there for a reason (100's o thousands of years of evolution)

now days, things, standards and ideas are different. Socially, the answer is "too young" chemically, though (its just right)

socially, meaning the norms set by our society. ex. School, job, money, house, and marriage or partnership. You can't avoid these "necessities" in life these days.

just another example of humans going against nature. will we ever stop? no, probably not.

Have smart sex. choose your partner wisely (some are deceiving so I wouldn't trust just anybody) use condoms!!!!!!!! and learn to say no assertively.

Take on life first, not love

if you DO do it. Remember the first is usually not the right one. Your thinking with the hormones, not logic. Don't beat yourself up if it doesn't work out. Just learn from it.


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2007-06-21 12:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by Mercury 2010 7 · 0 0

well at 15 you are still quite young and don't really no what is happening, your body's changing right now and no matter who the guy is that you want to do it with you will always remember
your first time and he wont most likely but i don't no hi so i don't no the best thing to do is wait until your ready i can tell you that for sue i have a 2 year old he will be 2 very soon and that's hard enough and I'm 4 months pregnant with my second so threes lots to think about before you have sex not only the pregnancy but STD and all that kinds off stuff but really it's your choice in life only you can decide if your ready.

2007-06-17 19:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think it is too young but to each their own I suppose. Losing your virginity is more than just about age. It has to do with responsibility, being able to handle relationships, physically and mentally. Depending on your maturity I cannot say what age is appropriate, but I can say that since most 15 year olds cannot get birth control without parental permission says something about how major a decision sex can be when dealing with minors.

2007-06-17 20:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by omorris1978 6 · 0 0

I think so...I was 15 when I started sleeping with a 19 year old and it's honestly one of the biggest regrets I have. At that age I felt I couldn't say no, especially to someone older. At least wait until you're over the age of consent so you know your bf won't get in trouble :) Remember, your virginity is really precious and a lot of men will want it so don't throw it away on any old loser (like I did)

2007-06-18 01:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by xangel123x 5 · 0 0

Yes, Way too long. Maybe in like 14 years when a 15 year old is 29. My Mother had me when she was 30, and I am the youngest of one sibling 2 years older than me. It;s a shame how the average age is 14! I have even heard of 12 year olds getting pregnant!

2007-06-17 19:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by {©helsea} 3 · 0 0

Yes. I was 18 when I lost mine. Not that I hadnt had many offers before that age but I didnt want just anyone to be my first. I was 15 when I met J. He was very much a gentleman which is very rare. When I felt ready I let him know and that was all he was waiting for. He never gave me any pressure to give it up. He didnt need to coerce me into being with him all he did was just love me and wait for the right time. And it was great. Beautiful in fact. To this day I have never regretted chosing him to be the first. I hope you wait for someone like that. You don't want the memory of your first to be in the back of some guys car or something. Don't let anyone pressure you. Do it when you really feel ready and please use protection. Condom and the pill/ shot /etc

2007-06-17 19:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by Tammy S 3 · 0 0

I think you've answered your own question. If you were sure you were ready you wouldn't need to be on here asking.

I don't know of anyone who lost their virginity at a young age who later on in life didn't wish they'd waited until they were older. Besides your body hasn't even stopped growing. I guarantee it will be much more pleasurable when you're older and you found that special someone that makes your heart do somersaults.

When you're 18 you'll think "What was I thinking when I was 15?" and then when you're 21 you'll think "What was I thinking when I was 18?" Of course when you get to 25 you'll say "Man I thought I knew it all at 21" and so on and so on.

I'm not saying wait until you're 25 lol my point is don't be in such a hurry to do things you're unsure of. And by the way all those friends that brag that they've done it probably haven't.

2007-06-17 19:06:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I know that when I was 15, I didn't think that it was. Actually, I was sure that it wasn't too young. But now that I look back on it, I truly and honestly wish that I didn't. That is, for sure, the biggest regret of my life.

Some of the other answers may seem on the harsh or insulting side. But this is not a dumb question at all. In fact, I wish I had the intelligence to ask it at your age. I was really dumb. But honestly, when you're ready to have sex, there won't be a question at all.

2007-06-17 20:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by athena24 2 · 0 0

Since I'm a mom now I'll say heck yes its too young. But in my opinion you're in high school at 15 and I lost mine at 14. Plenty will say that's the reason I got pregnant 3 years later but its not. Anyways, I don't think its too young just use protection. For the record I'm going to be the type of mom that says wait til you're married or at least out of high school but that's just me.

2007-06-17 19:08:02 · answer #11 · answered by Mz Bree 5 · 0 0

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