Am I a slut?

Question

I'm 13 and wear well fitting clothes, they're not skin tight, but they do fit. Sometimes my cleavage shows but that's it. I wear well fitting jeans that I can move in. And my skirts are all a horizontal hands length away from my knees. I wear bikinis, but they aren't the triangle ones, and I wear concealor, eyeliner, and lipgloss. But I fill out my clothes perfectly, like I have enough boobs to fill out everything and hips. Like the size is the right size(1) and like but am i slut and do I dress too old for my age?

And even though I'm 13, I've been mistaken for ages between 15 and 19.

I don't need mascara cause my eyelashes are really long
and I use the eyeliner to bring out my eyes, and it's just brown.

Answer 1

A slut, no. If I were you I would not care what anyone thinks. Let them call you a name if they want to. Being 13 is all about growing up, and changing from a girl into a woman. So have fun with it.

Answer 2

Yes, you dress too maturely. Why do you think you need to show what cleavage you have at 13? So the little 12 year old boys get riled up? That's not the thing to do. If they're not insulting you now, they will be. Nothing wrong with lip gloss, but the rest of it is too mature for your age. Why do you want to grow up so quickly? Enjoy your childhood and wipe that makeup off your face and wear clothes for your age group, please.

Older, perverted men will be attracted to you. You don't want that!

Concealer is to cover acne, dark circles under the eyes (you'll get them in your late teens or early 20s), wrinkles, or splotchy skin. I'm sorry, but at 13 your skin is baby soft and nice if you don't put stuff on it. Nothing wrong with some shimmery shadow (don't use too much or people might say you go to raves...) and clear lip gloss. Just don't overdo it. Mascara and eye liner are for adults. I am 22 and rarely wear eye liner or revealing clothing. People tend to take you more seriously if you dress more on the modest side than trashy side.

Answer 3

I wouldn't go as far as to say you're a ****,, but considering you are only 13 years old ..you don't need to be wearing clothes that show cleavage. remember if you can fit your entire hand in the waist of your jeans, then that is a perfect fit...and you should try wearing t-shirts instead of a revealing top. also, you are wearing too much makeup. cut out the eyeliner and concealor, and just use some mascara, and lip gloss. that would be much more appropriate for a girl your age.

Answer 4

the thing is that when a girl your age dresses like that it tends to attract guys and if an old guy sees u with eyeliner and lipgloss and nice tight clothes he's gonna get aroused and think that your letting him on and also other girls might get jealous
i dont think it makes you a slut it's just that at 13 try to dress a little better and kind of leave the make-up alone for now. I'm not telling you to walk around looking like the virgin mary--hell no! but like try to look hot by being the least dressed up. 4 example use the eye liner but drop the shiny & shimmering lip gloss..dont over do it by using eveything because that's when you look overdone and people start to see you as a whore or that type of person. And most importantly don't let your boobs hangout!!! let people know that your not flat chested but dont have them overexposed and in their face...i used to be tottally like that..but then i just kinda started going low on makeup and dressing more better...(no more short skirts) and guess what? i actually get more (good) attention frm guys and people than those other girls who try to dress slutty.

Answer 5

u do know that make-up (such as concealer) actually makes u age faster. It clogs ur pores n it gives u wrinkles, no matter how many times u wash ur face. I think u r dressing up too grown up 4 ur age. When i was 13 i wore jeans n cute baby doll tees n stuff, nothing that showed cleavage. I get that u have a nice body but u have ur 20s to show it off. It's fine to wear lipgloss but not the eyeliner. Enjoy being young, im 18 and im barely starting to show a lil bit of my cleavage. does ur mom let u dress that way? does she let u wear the concealer?

Answer 6

Well, if you're being mistaken for a 15-19 year old, I would tone down on the revealing clothes and makeup. I have a 13 year old daughter who wears fitted clothes and sometimes mascara. She is growing up and she is developing but she doesn't wear anything that shows her cleavage.

You don't want to get stuck in a situation that you can't get yourself out of. You will have plenty of time to look grown-up or sexy.

Answer 7

At 13, you are too young to be showing cleavage. I can understand a little light make up, such as lip gloss or a little mascara, but young girls are naturally beautiful and don't need much makeup. Think of a beautiful rose. Is it made prettier if you smear colored grease on it? Of course not. Eyeliner is too heavy for a young girl, and concealer, unless it is used with the very lightest touch, looks fake. Let's put it this way -- if someone looks at you and says, "Oh, she's wearing make up", you're wearing too much. But at your age, most people wouldn't think you're a slut. They just think you're a silly teenager who is trying to act older than she is.

There is no "right size". Women and girls come in all shapes and sizes, and most of them are right for them. But ask yourself this: Why are you so concerned about what other people think about your body? It's natural to want to look good, but don't get obsessed. Anyone that's worth knowing is worth knowing for what's going on in their head, not their bra size.

Answer 8

Why does a 13 yr old use concealer? I thought its to cover dark around the eyes..young kids still have the baby skin! Umm..yea why do you dress like that? Are you that desperate for male attention? Yea you are dressing too old for your age..join like the girl scouts or something. Is your dad in the picture? Is this why you need to get attention from older men cuz u never got your dad's attention? dress like other girls do, don't try to grow up too fast. Then all the sick men are gonna be all over you dats nasty. And too much makeup causes wrinkles

Answer 9

Uhm, it's nice to look attractive, but you don't want to give the impression that you are "easy pickings", because then guys will lose their respect for you. And remember, there are tons of pedophiles out there who tell themselves "she's a slut anyway, she wants it baaad" in order to justify their feelings or actions. Bikinis are fine imho, but I don't think you need eyeliner or concealer at this age. Artless young skin is good enough, it doesn' need cosmetics. My 12-year-old cousin looks a lot better without makeup than with.

Answer 10

If by *** you mean slut, then no. If you dress slutty and act like it then yes. Your clothing choice seems fine as long as your behavior isn't bad and you don't wear skin tight clothes. Don't act over flrity and be a tease, don't bend over in a skirt or loose shirt to show off.