We have 6 kids...3 white and 3 hispanic and I told him I dont want the hispanic ones cause I didnt think I could land me another guy with 3 lil' Mexicans.
What re your thoughts.
RS ;)
2007-06-17 16:09:36 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you are a RUDE person. my brothers and i are from a white parent and a mexican parent and if you were going to split us up based on how we looked, you would be a rotten mother and do not need to get another man anyway.
stop having kids too
2007-06-17 16:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by Christina V 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Is this for real? If this is really the case you don’t deserve any child no matter what color they are. Are the Hispanic children adopted? Or they your husbands from a previous relationship? Are all 6 children actual bi-racial , and 3 just happen to lean more towards one side and the others the other? Either way this should not matter if you’ve been raising them they are your children and that you would act this way is very sad.
You mentioned hell well Divorce is a sin, unless there has been unfaithfulness.
2007-06-17 16:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How did you end up with 3 white kids and 3 hispanic. Um...you been doing the gardener?
The world would be a better place if you didn't take any of the kids. At least they would have a chance to grow up without a soulless, foul mother.
You could visit them on cinco de mayo once a year and they could beat you like a pinata. My guess they might even get some candy falling out of you.
2007-06-17 16:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by ∞ sky3000 ∞ 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You total freak of nature...just b/c you and your hubby may split doesn't mean you have to be awful to the kids...what did they ever do to deserve that? From your statements it doesn't look like you are too concerned with any of your children's welfare if you are already worried about 'landing' another man. Surely, you can't be all that now can you???? You might not 'land' another guy but maybe your hubby will 'land' another lady who will love those kids, not matter their ethnicity...
2007-06-17 18:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you thinking???I am recently separated from my wife.We have 2 sons that are living with me.There is no way I would let them go or let her take them from me.The one thing I can't figure out is why she didn't even want to fight me for them.Your kids are your kids.They should come before anyone else.Guys may come and go but these are your kids for life.Please think about your actions before you make any decisions.Don't let your kids down.They won't forget the things that you do or don't do for them.You may not see things clearly now but you may regret it a few years from now when your kids have no respect for you.I have seen my wife loose the respect of her kids,her family and her friends and she still hasn't accepted responsibility for her actions.It will be a sad day when she wakes up but it is too late.Hopefully it is not too late for you.I hope everything works out for you.I don't want you to go to hell.Think before you act.I wish you all the best.
2007-06-17 16:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by byteme3333 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give up ALL of your children because what you say AND your actions PROVE you care MORE about yourself and your love life than ANY of them period. How many fathers of the kids are there and how many more guys are you going to go thru in the next 18 yrs? The problem isnt all the guys hon, look in the mirror and go get some counseling.
2007-06-17 16:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Before we get to my thoughts, are all 6 kids your biological kids or are the his panic kids adopted or your soon to be ex-husband's from a past relationship?.If they are your ex-husbands',then t he question is moot.But if all the kids are naturally yours then my question to you is:" why would you want any man who wants you to get rid of your kids(regardless of their race or heritage)in order for him to be with you"?.What is to stop him abusing you or the remaining kids?Do you care about the feelings of the kids you are rejecting or they don't matter as long as you get a new boyfriend.How about a man you are interested in rejecting you because you reject your kids?Think about all I've said before the divorce is final; or worse , the rejected kids find out how you feel about them.
2007-06-17 16:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have tought of that before you went ahead and had so many.ALL children are a blessing from god ..i hope you dont get any of them to be raised by a mother like you thats all we need is for your kids to grow up thinking they are better because of the color of their skin.land other guy you dont need to be thinking of that you need to 1.think about how to raise those kids right 2.getting help for the way you are thinking 3.about not having anymore kids you dont want.4.how to save your marriage ill pray for you cause heaven knows you need it
2007-06-17 16:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by dlrswalsh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of mother could leave behind only half of her children and for that reason?
You chose to have sex with him and married him and have children and now say you don't want them because of their being Mexican........guess you should have thought about that before.
I guess it wouldn't be so bothersome if you stated you didn't know how you would take care of all of them, however you stated 3 lil' Mexicans......
You know what this is a waste of my time, they would be better off with ANYbody else....people that loved them and would want them for whom they are not what they look like.
I don't know of any man that would want a woman that could give her children up for such a reason.
2007-06-17 16:17:00 · answer #9 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
your last answer was really strange ..... about cheating and shame... and now a question about hell?
hmmmmm well dear queenofyak you can only maybe go to hell if you believe in it. Do you?
but hope you get the answer that you are looking for. It might be easier if you asked the real question. Instead of making something up.
2007-06-17 16:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't be serious. If you are, I think you are disgusting. If their are kids involved, let's just add to the misery in their lives to know that the woman that is supposed to love them above all else is more concerned with finding another man than to have them.
2007-06-17 16:15:47 · answer #11 · answered by Mickey M 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋