Has anyone out there ever felt about someone that he/she was without a doubt the person they were going to marry?
This feeling was SO strong, it was almost as if God was speaking directly to me. (It happened in church to top things off)
We did end up dating, but our relationship broke up after about 5 mos. because he said he didn't have strong enough feelings for me. (He also realized it was too soon to date after his divorce.)
It's been 3 months, but I still feel like it's going to happen some day. We are still very close friends, and every time I try to put the past behind me, I have a weird dream, or a feeling, or he'll do something that makes me think...just hold out a while.
Maybe I'm crazy. Maybe not. Either way, I'm asking a bunch of strangers for an opinion! What does THAT say!? :-)
2007-06-17 15:59:48 · 16 answers · asked by loves2sing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
By the way, I'm 30...so this isn't some HS crush thing. I do have SOME experience with men!
2007-06-17 16:15:04 · update #1
Keep an open hand with it. If you are truly seeking God on this then He will give you direction. If you're right... awesome! Be patient and wait on God's timing. If that's not it - then there is something else better suited to your purpose, and better than anything you could do in your own strength. God bless!
2007-06-17 16:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by globalgrl3130 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you're not crazy. The fact that you're asking strangers is good because they have no emotional attachment, and can look at your situation from the outside. That being said, I'm 25, and I believe the girl I'm with is the one for me. And we've talked about our feelings. We met in January, at a friend of mine's funeral. Her and I truly believe the sheer circumstance of our meeting is more than coincidental. We met up a month after the funeral, and hit it off. We both feel we're meant for each other, and that our friend had something to do with our relationship. He might not be here physically, but we believe he, through his death, led us together.
2007-06-18 00:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by Dan D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait it out a bit, maybe he thinks that being with you to soon after a divorce you will just be a rebound and he does not want that for you. Or maybe he really does not like you. Why not just not put your life on hold for him but be open to the thought of meeting someone else and if it happens it happens and if not then so be it. Just dont sit and wait for him, but be his friend and maybe he will come around.
2007-06-17 23:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..ive been in situations like these...& I also have a "friend" who is in that exact situation..If you think that someday things will happen maybe they will..you never know but i believe that everything happens for a reason..But if he doesnt have strong feelings for u like he use to then maybe u should move on..U never know it could work out again..But as of now ..I would just move on and see where things go..Just give it time..No need to rush kk good luck!
2007-06-17 23:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did.
We dated for a year and ahalf, but then for a couple different reasons i had to break it off. The main reason was the amount of change we had both gone through, and how young we were. we arent close any more. after two years i dont remember how to talk to him as just his friend and there is a huge difference between the way you talk to your buddy from class and your boyfriend of a year and a half.
2007-06-17 23:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by ari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i knew the minute that i laid eyes on my husband that he was the one, and i did end up getting pregnant with another mans child. but we were married eventually, and together now.. just make sure u know in ur heart of hearts that this is the man that you want to b with, and just let God do his work. its the same feelings i had for mine. I love him more today than i ever have after 15 years. if you know this is the one, girl wait. it will b wort it.
2007-06-17 23:44:17 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts. Some times, people have a sort of intuition that tells you about important things in life. It could very well mean that you are going to marry this person.
2007-06-17 23:04:07 · answer #7 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes what we want to happen isn't meant to be.
You have strong feelings about him.....but it doesn't sound like he returns those feelings.
Don't put your life on hold waiting for him to get on the same page you're on......go on and live your life because it sounds like he's living his life.
2007-06-17 23:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stranger things have happened....
Ask God to guide you and to give you His peace....If He leads you, everything that happens will be for your benefit.
Trust Him and ask Him to send you the right person.
Good luck!
2007-06-17 23:05:23 · answer #9 · answered by Nena S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...let me get this strait girl... this guy breaks up wit u an says he got no feelings for u... ur convinced this is the guy God wants u to marry... and u said it came to u like a voice strait from God right in church... ... ... girl face it... ... the guys just not into u... ... sorry but u really R CRAZY!!!!!!!
2007-06-18 02:02:06 · answer #10 · answered by Gold Digger 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋