im 318 and play baseball and fat and i have never been so captivated by a girl like this be for i just want her to take intrest in me for who i am and im trying to lose weight but not looking so good
2007-06-17 15:54:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Girls like confidence!!
2007-06-17 15:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you know her? all girls really want guys with a hot body but some will go up to a guy and talk to him whether he's hot or not, not saying your ugly.... you should go up to her cause she may not come to you, and if you are a good person behind your looks you can charm her into liking you and if she is a good person she'll like you whether your hot or not. and if she doesn't than she's not the girl for you cause she can't accept how people look
hope i helped xox
2007-06-17 23:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I would say to let her get to kno you now,and if she doesnt accept you now, then dont lose all that weight for her, but for urself, cuz nobody should ever be in a relationship where its all about looks, cuz it'll lead to no where but if she likes you as a person now then when u lose the weight and u appeal to her,cool.
2007-06-17 23:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by ---REBA--- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start out as friends! She most likely won't care about weight when your friends and then shell see if she likes you for you and will forget the outside
2007-06-17 23:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was overwaight but i ate only 3 meals a dayand small ones..your stomache shrinks plus...you gotta hike or somtin....eat less and exersize and youll lose wight its the only thing 100% proven to work...you can only do it tho if your determined
2007-06-17 23:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious ! Dude, go to the gym, workout A LOT ! Eat right and in moderation and maybe, maybe you get a chance...
2007-06-17 23:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by Darkness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and if she is worth it, she will see you for the great guy that you are! all the best!
2007-06-17 23:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by RdWazoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she does like you. i mean, not all girls, like me, like the whole six pack thing.
but keep doing what your doing and go for it.
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2007-06-17 23:03:53 · answer #8 · answered by mle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋