Can you believe that my father of my twin I cought him cheating on fathers day!
I finally found out why he didn't want to marry me so than when he got to our house he POP the question so what do I say I say I been waiting for this do I say yes or no?
2007-06-17 15:22:58 · 15 answers · asked by Jasmine 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Say "NO!" loud and clear. If he's cheating now, he'll continue later. If he really wanted to marry you, he would have already taken steps to move in that direction before he was cheating. If you know you can't forgive him and learn to move on, you'll be miserable. Nothing is worse than being with someone you can't trust.
2007-06-17 15:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by teach5sa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Huh? He cheated on you on Father's Day? You mean today? Or last year. You say he didn't want to marry you but he popped the question, that is so confusing. If he cheated at all why would you even consider marrying him? He isn't ready to settle down and if he cheats again, you only have yourself to blame. Don't say yes cause of the kids. Single parents raise kids everyday. He can be in their lives, he doesn't have to be in yours. I raised two alone and they turned out fantastic. Then I met the man I love and married him. Life has a way of working out. Don't settle. But I think no matter what advice you get you will say yes. You sound desperate.
2007-06-17 22:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was reading your profile and it was weird who do you live with at 17 with 2 kids and your mom does not know you had twins? Well to your question you said in your profile that your bf was going to yale so why would he be asking you to marry him if you are going to be that far apart? I would just say no and let him just be the father to the twins and move on.
2007-06-17 22:35:10 · answer #3 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but this is a surprise? really?!
Say no...and then say hell no.
At the very least...take several months to figure out what you think about this. Don't just say yes because you've been waiting for him to ask.
Don't start a marriage based on his proposal that he's just using as a diversion from being caught. He just trying to confuse you so that he can get back to cheating.
2007-06-17 22:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by ∞ sky3000 ∞ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask a group of strangers on the Internet whether or not you should marry someone (which, by the way, is a HUGE decision to make), then you're obviously not ready or mature enough to be married. Unfortunately your children will undoubtedly suffer either way.
2007-06-18 01:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by elizabeth_ashley44 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear about this...You must be very young and immature.
The fact you are even CONSIDERING marrying this loser idiot reflects the poor self-esteem you have....Why do you hate yourself so much that you are willing to marry this cheating jerk???
You need help, honey...ASAP!
If you do marry him, don't expect much sympathy from many of us here...This guy is BAD NEWS and if you marry him it will only make your life harder and more complicated.
Don't say you weren't warned !!!
2007-06-17 22:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by Nena S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stupid once: having kids with someone who is not married to you.
Stupid twice: picked the wrong guy who sleeps around.
Stupid thrice: desperate to marry, even to the wrong guy
2007-06-17 22:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound like the sharpest tool i the shed, so take it while you can get it...say yes.
2007-06-17 22:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by bettercockster1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to do some popping...pop him right in the balls and boot him out that door for good.
2007-06-17 22:30:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
if u say yes ur just asking to be hurt more
2007-06-17 22:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by slurpy73 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋