2007-06-17 15:09:01 · 11 answers · asked by jesusmylife1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
better to fight before u get married then after and have to divorce
2007-06-17 15:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by s w 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it is normal for engaged couples to fight a lot. of course everyone's opinion on what is 'a lot' differs. There will be disagreements on various things with respect to the wedding but in general there should not be that much 'fighting' in my view.
2007-06-17 15:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by twolfe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not!
Sure, it's normal to have occasional disagreements- and they tend to escalate a bit when the wedding plans are being made- but if you are fighting A LOT, then perhaps you should back off a bit and see where this is going....
A marriage is a serious commitment, and you both need to know how to argue and give in and negotiate...instead of fight.
Be honest about your feelings and talk things over with him....Before it's too late.
2007-06-17 15:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by Nena S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
(*sigh*) Different people have different styles of interacting with each other. Some people never argue. Some people argue all the time.
The big question is, do you really want to spend the rest of your life fighting with each other? If you're fighting now, the stresses of married life are not going to make it better..only worse. Frankly, you need to get couples counseling NOW, learn how to express yourselves in a positive way, and don't get married until you get the relationship on the right track.
Oh, and if you haven't already, don't bring any children into the relationship. They only add to the stress, and children need functional parents, not bickering parents. If you already have children, don't have more.
2007-06-17 16:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Normal, yes, but not a lot. Also it depends on what might be the root cause of the "fighting" you mention. Could just be stress. Could be a way to help "figure out" the other person's view-point on particulars. Could be a sense of doubt.
2007-06-17 15:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by solo_powered_boatie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not normal for any couple to fight a lot.
Every body disagrees but if it happens so much that it makes you both miserable.....then you may need some professional guidance.
2007-06-17 15:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How close are you to the wedding?
My husband and I fought a bit, mostly because we were both stressed out over the wedding. But I wouldn't consider it "a lot". Maybe once a week. 90% of them were minor argumants where we just got frustrated with one another.
2007-06-17 15:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You should get out of the engagement.
2007-06-18 01:19:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, lots of fighting should occur. mainly you wanting to sit down and discuss every detail of the wedding and him not really caring :P
seriously, just remember to breath and take a step back :)
2007-06-17 15:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by Christina V 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WELL IT IS OK BUT DON/T DO IT A LOT.IT WOULD MAKE THINGS WORSE OK.
2007-06-17 15:16:06 · answer #10 · answered by PAUL P 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋