Neither. Both of these vices present serious problems for a relationship. If you're in a relationship dealing with issues like these, you need to decide real fast if it's worth it. If you can't commit to someone who clearly has a drinking problem, or someone who has cheated, then you can't show them the love they need to help them overcome their battles. Be fair to yourself and honest with them.
2007-06-17 15:02:06
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answered by Hitch 4
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To deceive by trickery, To mislead; fool, To act dishonestly; practice fraud, To elude; escape:, those are some of the definitions of cheating. The funny thing is you can also apply those attributes to someone who has a drinking problem as well. So I guess that mans that neither is worse than the other. They are both bad and constitutes the fact that the person who is doing either of the 2 has a problem. If they do have a drinking problem it almost seems as if you can work that out better than someone who cheats, but I could be wrong ask Hilary Clinton.
2007-06-17 15:18:37
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answered by poeticscribe1 3
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Well I'm not sure of your situation but if you are trying to choose between a guy who drinks too much and a guy who cheats I think you should choose neither. I'm not trying to put these guys down so please don't take it that way I just think you would and should want better. If you have a man in your life he should be the only one and you should be the only woman in his. Other wise what's the point of being in the relationship. Yall could just be friends.
As far as the guy who drinks too much, well when people drink too much they can often do things that they regret later. I'm not burning bread on you but I've heard of a lot of abusive relationships as a result of drunkeness. No one perfect but choose that special someone with your head not your heart.
God Bless
Hope this helps
If this has nothing to do with a relationship then disreguard everything I said.
2007-06-17 15:06:54
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answered by 2FR3SH4U 2
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Unfortunately one usually leads to the other. The drinker may drink because they feel their relationship is bad or not going well. The cheater may feel the same thing, so they cheat. Both, however, can use their particular reasons as justification to do either.
Example; I drink because I cheat. OR I cheat because I drink. Both can claim a bad relationship as the justification for doing either... or both!
Which is worse? That all depends on the relationship.
2007-06-17 15:11:19
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answered by solo_powered_boatie 2
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They are both even when you break it down!You can cheat but when you drink this may cause you to drink well atleast you have an excuse on why you cheated! I think when someone cheats thats the worse!
2007-06-17 15:07:13
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answered by Anonymous
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Someone who FARTS is the worst.
Drinking sucks, really bad, but can sometimes be fixed.
Cheating is more of a personality disorder, and I don't thimk that ever goes away.
Try to find someone who doesn't, cheat, drink or fart.
Preferably some one who is stable and has a good job.
Good luck.
2007-06-17 15:17:06
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answered by Anonymous
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the one who cheats one a cheat always a cheat for the person with a drinking problem they can get help with it would rather deal with that than a cheater any time of day
2007-06-17 14:58:47
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answered by Anonymous
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Someone who is drinking IS cheating. They prefer alcohol to their family. They spend all their money on it. They miss family events, or cause problems at the family events.
Not much different than if they had a lover on the side.
2007-06-17 16:04:13
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answered by Kaia 7
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a cheater is someone who has a problem with body control,cheating hurts more because you don't expect to love someone for so long and find out that they are cheating,that hurts really bad.and an alcoholic is someone who abuses anything that can intoxicate them,or problems they hold on for so long without seeking help and turn to alcohol to ease the pain,but in my category they are both the same it hurts
2007-06-17 15:05:41
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answered by nickkie s 3
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Someone who cheats is much worse. I am an alcholic and drink all the time but have fun doing it. Something that is fun can't be bad, right? Alcohol is all I have in life. I'm a fat middleaged man who still lives with his parents in an apartment in a crummy Midwestern city.
2007-06-17 15:01:29
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answered by Anonymous
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