Why is my husband getting on my nerves soooo badly?

Question

Usually we cuddle 24/7, but It seems everything he says is stupid, ignorant and juvenile and pathetic. We just got home from vacation and my mother came to visit from another country for awhile, plus my 19 yr. old son just moved back in with us.

Answer 1

Maybe hes horny and old at the same time...and on top of that since he cant get none and when he does try to get some ur 19 year old son gets in the way.....word!!

Answer 2

Maybe you're the kind of person that has trouble dealing with stress and change...From what you wrote, your mother's visit and your 19 year old moving back in are stressing you out....But you should really try to see things in perspective.

Put the blame where it belongs...Seems to me like you're blaming your husband for everything, and that's not fair.
If you don't seek help or try to relax a bit, he might become fed up with your attitude and this will be a cause for more stress in the future....Good luck.

Answer 3

You probably answered your own question. Post-vacation letdown, mother-in-law for a long visit, teen-ager in the house indefinitely that's apparently not his offspring--he's got a right to complain. You're probably stressed out too. Instead of blaming your husband for all this, admit that he has the right to be unhappy, or at least dismayed, and stop being so critical. Marriages can survive all sorts of external shocks and changes if the partners focus on working together to keep their relationship strong instead of casting blame on each other.

Answer 4

Maybe he's having an affair --- J/K

There's someting that's bothering him. Maybe the Mother-in-law, the boy movin back in, or even work problem. There could be so many reasons he seems distant. Get him out of the house to a neutral place any kindly ask him what's on his mind lately but DON'T NAG!!!

Answer 5

considering which you copied and pasted somebody else's q and purely replaced the spouse and her to husband and him, i will repeat and paste my answer to the unique q.. purely mentally replace the spouse to husband and her to him. the only suggestion I even have is to talk to her and tell her precisely what you suggested right here.. yet do it in the time of a time while she's in a descent temper. clarify to her how she behaves while she's dissatisfied and which you do desire to help and do care, yet how could she like which you would be able to precise it considering which you're annoyed with how the two one in each of you're working via it now. She's the only individual who can inform you what she needs.. She's fortunate to have a guy who's so worried.

Answer 6

Sounds like its not him but the other stresses in your life. Wait for things to turn back to normal and make sure you have some time to yourselves (shouldn't be too hard with your son being 19).

Answer 7

because you love him so much and you care. Okay on a seriouth thought, some men do say stupid, pathetic and ignorant things at time but as his wife cover his mess and pray for him sometime the enemy can be jalouse and try to take away your joy, Don't let it happen....

Answer 8

PMS?
or maybe its weird having a son just move back in, i'm sure things must be a little stressed

Answer 9

Try Midol.

Seriously, you need to lighten up. Take a hot bath and unwind from the day and gather your thoughts. Let him know beforehand this is "you" time and you just need some quiet time.

Answer 10

He gets on your nerves because of instead of leaving you alone, he's pushing your wrong buttons and has no clue.