Can my mother get a restraining order against my boyfriend from seeing me if we are still together!?

Question

Me and my boyfriend have been together for three months and one day he had got put out and i let him spend the night without my momma knowing and she caught him and doesn't like him anymore. We are still together and are in love and supposely have a baby on the way but she calls and threatends him saying she will hurt him if she sees him with me but i still want to be with him and he wants to be with me but she wants us seperated.

Answer 1

Depends on how old you are and how old he is. If you are not considered an adult yet (17 in south carolina) then she can get a restraining order against him but she still needs to prove he has done something wrong. Spending the night with your girlfriend is not enough unless he is 18 or over.

Answer 2

You mother is acting a bit immaturely here, I hate to say it. Especially because you have a baby on the way.

But...she is also worried about you, about your future. Just like you might have hopes and dreams for the future of your own baby, she also had and still has hopes and dreams for the future of her baby (and that would be you!).

Try to take more control of the situation. I assume that you're still in school? Tell her that you will stay in school (please don't drop out) and that you'll need her help. And that you still want to do all the things that you planned, maybe college being one of them?

Also, keep in mind that you have options. There is nothing wrong with deciding that you would want to have an abortion. You still have many decades of fertility ahead of you and you can have as many babies as you want. When you have the cash and the career that you dream about. Maybe now is just not the right time. Neither for you or for your boyfriend. Your relationship with your boyfriend will last or not last regardless if you have an abortion. It all depends on you two. And you seem to love each other. And love can stand all kinds of tests.
Please think about your options. You have a right to make a decision on your own.

Good luck!

Answer 3

First off, define "put out". It is impossible for her to get a restraining order, if you are of age. IT sounds like you two are going a little fast. For the most part, parents know what they are talking about. Listen to her and cool things down a bit.

Answer 4

If your under 18 she can get a restraining order and you better hope or be glad he's not 18 or older because then she could also press charges on him and he'd have a sex offender record for the rest of his life

Answer 5

if your under 18 yup. obvisiously you are still living with your mom(her house her rules). now if boyfriend mans up and gets his own place then he could get a restraining order on her because she is treatning him. that night he stayed over was probably the night you got pregnant. hopefully your 18 and your boyfriend is around that age because if your a minor which is 17 under and your boyfriend is 21 and over your mom can call the cops and your boyfriend will do sometime in jail. and on top of that he will be scared for life because he will then be registered as a sex offender which stays on his record for life. you just met the guy so already you were moving to fast. if your boyfriend was 21 he should of been more patient and waited. that to me would of been true love. for one the relationship would have been on a social level for 4 years without anything physical going on. the parents if they would have approved of the situation would have known the real you and also would have had that social relationship for 4 years. because in reality thats what relationships are built on( trust and communication) and your boyfriend ****** that up because he was thinking with his dick not his brain. now he's trying to grab life(your mom) by the horns. and the only reason i call her life is because thats pretty much what she is to your boyfriend right now. if you are a minor and your boy is 21 your mom can either make him or break him. moms are are care givers. they can be the bitchest women on earth but all in all they are still care givers. i would show them respect before i show any man respect. he pretty much bit the hand that fed him because like i said she can either make him or break and that goes in any situation not just yours. mothers and daughters are like best friends which is pretty much a bond that could never be broken especially by man. so basically your boyfiend bounced the ball the wrong way because of instead of making a friend he has now made an enemy. what was once easy to read is now something lost forever. basically saying good luck patching up that relationship. he could of had the reputation of an angel in that house hold but instead he's probably the talk of the house hold now. you don't go against the grain you go with it and your doing nothing but adding fuel to the fire. its one thing to be yourself but tell your boyfriend to show some respect, or at least respect his helders. he knew he welcomed himself into the house especially without your moms concent because if you both thought she'd would say yes then you would have asked her. tell your boyfriend he's burning his bridges, that he probably gave his life away, and because you might be pregnant gave himself a bad name. sex offenders can't be around any kids so i hope you guys aint the athletic type your boyfriend would miss out on that whole aspect of life. school confrences, parties etc. like i said anything having to do with kids. that doesn't mean get an abortion because thats not cool either. handle your responsibilities like grown ups. don't ruin someone elses life because you couldn't control yours. if pregnant take it one day at a time. if you think it's drama right now wait until you have that baby or wait until you get into the real world. life is what you make it so hopefully you can overcome and triumph. remember its not checkers its chess. everything happens for a reason. the **** with your mom and boyfriend i don't think was suppose to happen but like anything in life you learn to adjust so if slip you better get your punk *** back up. audios mi amigos.

Answer 6

You need a good reason for a restraining order, you can't just get one on anybody you don't like. Your mom would have to prove that your boyfriend was violent towards you or something along those lines.

Answer 7

Yes, she can, if you are under 18. I hope you don't have a baby on the way because you both sound remarkably immature and childish. Do both him and yourself a favor and stay away from each other.

Answer 8

If your under eighteen you may be under your mom's control for some time. But if you are of legal age there is no way she can keep you apart, but you would have to move from her house.........you know her house her rules. Check to see what the legal age is where you live.

Answer 9

if you are under age, Yes she can! she can send him to jail too for breaking the restraining order. not only that, she can have you sent away to a foster home or institution where you wont feel so free and visitation will be monitored!!!!

Answer 10

Listen to you're mother. She's been here longer that either of you and she knows a lot more than you think she does. Ask this question in 15-20 years when you have your own child.