Wanna talk about it?
*caring face*
2007-06-17 14:09:49 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
OK, how 'bout this: (Background a nut shell) My Fiance and I have been together for 6 years and engaged for 1. We've been in our house for 3 years. I'm in my 5th year at my job, he's in his 3rd. I'm 32 and he just turned 30 on the 1st. He works either 8 hour or 12 hour night shifts at the hospital and I work days. We have one dog, no kids, neither of us want them.
About 6 months ago I randomly (because I was looking at something on line) told him we could be married in a year. I had no clue this was coming. He said he didn't really want to get married! (I planned our engagement and designed and bought the ring). He did say he wanted to be with me, but was afraid things would change if we got married. So I backed off the idea and let it go...
This last month he's been despondent. He bought a new road bike (he used to race) but hasn't used it. He isn't returning his family's calls. After I told him my personal space bubble (I used to not be a cuddle person) decreased, he was adamant that I shouldn't expect his to just because mine did. All he does is watch TV. Our sex life is at an all time low.
I think he's depressed (because I have depression, I've learned to recognize the signs).
Oh, and I haven't mentioned that the last couple of times he's left for work, he hasn't kissed me goodbye.
What can I do?
2007-06-17 14:29:34 · answer #1 · answered by Rayne 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How did you blow your possibility, would I ask? i'm sorry to pay attention which you're depressed and all which you're dealing with - possibly you're in simple terms looking too stressful to discover love, permit love discover you. that is like the quote from the music "blue and yellow" with the aid of The Used is going, "properly you in no way discover it once you're searching for it" - now I have not have been given any thought if he replaced into relating love, yet it is how I take it, and it rings very actual. in simple terms wait and spot. attempt to not upset your self over this. you're basically sixteen, you have have been given your total existence earlier to you. There are a million extra females available that have not had the exhilaration of assembly you yet. that is going to ensue - supply it time. :]
2016-11-25 19:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What love life? mine is non existent, but i'm okay with that, it means alot less drama, and alot more time to read...I just took out a wack load of books from the library. If I had a love life, I would totally tell you about it, but unfortunately I don't...sorry. :)
2007-06-17 14:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by Pants in a Pear Tree 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Barriers, but not necessarily trouble in my love life. Apologies, no, I do not wish to talk about it. Thank you for asking so caringly.
2007-06-17 14:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What love life?
2007-06-17 14:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by rachel t 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My only problem is that my sweetie will be half a continent away for the next 9 days! I hate it!
2007-06-17 17:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by Husker41 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. My love life right now is the best it has ever been.
2007-06-17 14:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only wish that I had a love life!
2007-06-17 14:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by nfogey_1981 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a love life. My self-esteem over other matters has lowered considerably.
2007-06-17 14:13:13 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! He's gone FOREVER! Well actually we're still together hes just in a whole nother state. : ( makes me sad. Excuse me, I have something in my eye.
*Sobbing Uncontrollably*
2007-06-17 14:12:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋