if you are straight, but find yourself fantasising about females and males... what does this mean?
2007-06-17 12:52:43 · 35 answers · asked by pmp 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
but you wouldnt ever consider a relaitionship with the same sex, because its just not you... its only the fantasies...
2007-06-17 12:56:59 · update #1
You are being influenced by the media and things you are seeing, and hearing in your life. Today its cool for two women to kiss and guys will cheer you on to do so, example: Britney and Madonna. Because its so accepted and protrayed on TV ALL the time and you are watching it you are being influenced by what you see. Modify what you hear and see and watch things change.
2007-06-17 13:10:29 · answer #1 · answered by spirit2 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Fantasies are just that and if you have no desire to be in a relationship with another woman or to act on these fantasies then you are still pretty much straight.
Lots of people fantasize about things they would never act out, I'm sure plenty of people have a few things they fantasize saying to their boss that they never would.
Don't worry, there's nothing wrong with a bit of imagination.
2007-06-17 13:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is how I look at it. I have thoughts about guys all the time but have never acted out on them, yet. I do not find guys "attractive" at all, but I can't keep my eyes off of women. I do not want any kind of emotional relations with men, purely s*xual and only because of the lack of females to get down with lol. Guys are "easier" and understand the perv ideas us guys have! Rather have someone else get it done than alone!
Feel free to email me.
2007-06-18 09:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why label? Labels just serve to constrict, and have widely differing meanings to different people: see the answers on here, for example. Make your own meanings, but don't rush to label yourself and others, it's a modern phenomenon: just like the more recent label 'bicurious'. The label isn't the reality, it's just a rough hewn tag or map, often for someone else's benefit or understanding. Your outlined thoughts and fantasies sound pretty standard to me, whether you act on them is your choice.
Good luck! Rob
2007-06-17 22:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by Rob E 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think sexuality is a sliding scale. Personally I find guys attractive but I have also enjoyed kissing girls (although never actually had a proper girlfriend) and have dressed boyfriends up as girls. I consider myself 80% straight 20% lesbian.
2007-06-17 22:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by Lorraine C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you are perfectly normal. There are many men and women who identify themselves as straight who fantasise about and even have occasional sex with the same sex. There are many men and women who identify as gay who fantasise about and even have sex with the opposite sex. They do not identify as bi. Forget labels. Humans are sexual beings and enjoy sex with other humans. Labels are imposed by laws and religions. Ignore them. Go with your own feelings, don't feel guilty and don't stick a label on yourself. No-one else can label your sexuality, you are the only person who can do that.
2007-06-17 12:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by tentofield 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
pmp....we are all a little "bi". Did you see that "South Park" episode based on this idea? I don't care how "straight" or "gay...lesbian" you think you are, at some point in your life you will flirt with the idea of having same-sex or opposite-sex relations (with someone you like). This is why.....in my humble opinion...we're all a little "bisexual".
I hope this answer doesn't offend.....I'm just stating my opinion as a "bisexual" guy.
Peace be with you..-Vinny.
2007-06-17 13:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both of my parents were heterosexual, my present age is over 60, I am a male/female Intersexual / Gay, my Genes / DNA are XXXY. I was as an Intersexual / Gay befor birth, I was born with a penis so the doctor put me down as male
2007-06-18 09:52:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably bicurious....you fantasise about members of the same gender but wouldn't have a relationship with them.
2007-06-17 14:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by Neely O'Hara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be bicurious, which is a curiosity or fantasy regarding sex with a gender different to the one you primarily go after. Please note that bicurious and bisexual are two different things. Bisexuality is a sexual orientation in its own right whilst the term bicurious is more of a description of thought.
2007-06-20 08:35:41 · answer #10 · answered by nemesis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably straight if it is just a fantasy, but I wouldn't try to catagorise your sexuality. We all are varying degrees of straight, bisexual or gay. It's nothing to worry about, just carry on enjoying the fantasy.
2007-06-20 23:09:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋