Im 14 and I think Im pregnant?

Question

So what are the symptoms of pregnacy? I think I might be pregnant because I have vaginal fluid, bloating stomach, nausea and i go to the bathroom to much. Well his daddy is not with me anymore.....
And if I am, then I will take care of this baby and i dont care if his dad doesnt want him, thats why he has me.

I have no right to take away the life of this baby, and if i give it for adoption I know I will regret so thats why I want to take care of this piece of joy. I know my parents will be upset but I know they will help me.
Please no negatice stuff, if i come here is for answers not opinions ok(not to be mean)

dlimp333
Not to be mean, but thats ****** up no offence...I would never kill my own baby

And if I am, i already decieded to keep him

and I heard that if you bleed a little to

Answer 1

some early pregnancy symptoms are:

♥ 10. Tender, swollen breasts
♥ 9. Fatigue
♥ 8. Implantation bleeding
♥ 7. Nausea or vomiting
♥ 6. Increased sensitivity to odors
♥ 5. Abdominal bloating
♥ 4. Frequent urination
♥ 3. A missed period
♥ 2. Your basal body temperature stays high
♥ 1. The proof: A positive home pregnancy test


♥good luck and stay strong♥

Answer 2

Unfortunately the symptoms of pregnancy are often like the symptoms before a period. If I were you I would get a pregnancy test just to be sure, however I don't think you being pregnant is your biggest problem right now, it is what happens after pregnancy. The fact that you had sex without using birth control just goes to show you are not mature yet. If I were you I would hope you weren't pregnant because there is a little life at stake here not just your feelings about being a mum and being moral. You are still a little girl. A child.

As a 14 year old it will be very hard to raise a baby alone, raising a baby means you have to put yourself LAST meaning if the baby needs a feed but you need to sleep you must first feed your screaming bundle of "joy" unless you have someone else there to help.

Having had a baby myself I struggled with losing my identity as one person and having to re-adjust to now being two people as most new mums do and I was a mature adult! Nothing can prepare you for what it will be like, almost every mum gets a horror shock! You also lose your independence as a baby needs constant, never ending attention for at least the first 3 months (its longer than it sounds) or more.

Answer 3

First of ALL honey, get a test kit, and find out if you are Blue or pink, Read the labels it tells it all, The answer will be official then.
Second honey, It is going to be that you will be nearly 30 years old before things get back to normal, if you are definanlty pregnant, thus you will miss most of your best childhood years.
If you are going to have a baby, you need to be prepared to be told by many of your friends , family and neighbors that you are not a nice girl, to get knocked up, These are just some facts you will have to live with if you are indeed pregnant Sweetie.

You will need to tell your parents right away if you are, if you hold back until it is obvious, then they will look down on you for not trusting in them to help you, but take the test first.
How long have you been having sex ? maybe he was very hard on you, when having sex. Was it just one guy or was it more than one. have to ask that knowdays. If your having sex, then you need to know that you are expected to be able to put up with all the adult things that go with raising a family.
I hope that this is not a cover up for a Rape, if it is, then you need to talk to athorities NOW.
If it was just a big mistake to go without protection, and you did get pregnant, then MOM DAD, older Sister, Aunt, grandma even can be good people to talk to, and the Dr. your family Dr. Will be able to help a lot.
find out the background Health of the dad, if you are certain you know for sure who he is.
Thsi will help you during your Pregnancy and after birth.

I do applouad you for sayng so far that if you are carrying, then that you WILL not be cowared like the dad may be. And to try to raise this child by yourself at 14 years old, is not going to happen, sorry that just a fact.
You need to stay in school graduate and get some college while getting some work while you are 16-18 to have the folks help you for those years when you have a part time job and rake everything away you can. I hope they are willing to help you those first 3 years tell you are out of High School.

Good luck and God bless you on lifes journey's.
a Priest will help talk with you anytime about your problems and try to give guidence too. Dont ever be afraid to speak with a Priest, you are gods child also. Forgivness is all you ask.

Answer 4

Symptoms of prenancy are:
Have missed one or more periods.
Have your period, but there is a lot less bleeding than usual.
Fatigue.
Breast tenderness or enlargement.
Nausea or vomiting.
Increased urination.

Get yourself a home pregnancy test or do you have a friend who could take you to your local health department to get tested? It would be free and they could not tell your parents even at 14 if all you request is a pregnancy test.

Unfortunately I have no straight out answers for you. Only you can make the decisions you have to make. If you are pregnant, tell your parents especially since you know they will help you, yes they will be upset at first. If you are not pregnant, consider some sort of birth control if you are going to have sex so you are not in this situation again until you are ready to be. Raising a child is not easy and it is a hard road. There is joy but it is still hard. Your life will not be your own anymore or do what you want to when you want to. Your child will always have to come first regardless of what it costs you. I feel bad for you, you are too young to have to face such a crisis as this, but everyone makes mistakes so I am not judging you in any way. But these decisions you can only make yourself. Think about one more thing also, if you are pregnant regardless if you or the father are together anymore, it is HIS RESPONSIBLITY ALSO, (it takes 2) regardless of how you feel about each other or regardless of how young he is also. He needs to take responsibility for his actions also. Again, it is not about what you want, but you have to think of the child now if you are pregnant and the things the child will need, sure love is great for a child, but they need a lot more than love too.

Best of luck to you.

Answer 5

taking care of a baby is a hell of a lot harder than what you think it is. If you think you're pregnant, get a home pregnancy test which you can get at the dollar store and they are accurate. You need to find out and know rather than think you are so you ccan prepare yourself for the long, touch journey ahead of you. You have a good head on your shoulders to be saying that you are going to take care of this baby no matter what. That makes a good mother. All I can say is to go to the doctor and once you find out, tell your parents. If you're not pregnant, think about things before you jump in the sack again for it's really hard and stressful. Oh by the way, opinions are answers. It's advice from other people. It's also a free world and people are going to write negative stuff. good luck though!

Answer 6

Okay, actual help here- this site explains the signs of pregnancy for teens. http://www.pregnancycenters.org/teen-pregnancy-symptom.asp If you click "find a center" on the left-hand side, that will direct you to local pregnancy assistance. It is free and confidential. They'll give you good counseling- they would NEVER push you to have an abortion. They can even help you tell your parents!

You can also email me any time you want. (I'm 18.) I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. You do have a lot of pregnancy signs, but it's possible that you aren't... in any case, be more careful in the future! Remember that pregnancy isn't the only thing to worry about, there's also STDs.
<3 Kelsey

Answer 7

Get a pregnancy test or go to planned pregnancy sweetie. It is brave of you to decide to raise the baby, if there is one. However, it may be too soon for you to worry about that stuff. There is only a small window of time you can get pregnant from the time you had sex and when you ovulate. The stress of thinking your pregnant can also give you those symptoms as well as excessive exercise, poor diet, hormonal imbalance, or simply an irregular period.

Answer 8

first things first...

1) have you had sex without a condom or protection?

2) Have you missed a period and if so, for how many days?

3) Why don't you just go and take a pregnany test? Only that will tell you the results. (Only take the test if you've been late for 7 days)

IF you are pregnant, better tell your parents!!! Or someone you can trust. You are so very young to be a mother!

Answer 9

Honey I am so proud of you that you have taken this and really thought about it and not getting an abortion if you are pregnant. Its stupid for people to be giving you lectures now, you cant change the past. Take a home pregnancy test. Good luck and keep us updated. I hope I helped and if you are pregnant Congratualtions on the new little bundle of joy!!

Answer 10

I think that you should go to the drugstore and buy a pregnancy test so you can be sure. I hope your not but if you are then talk to the dad and your parents. Hopefully you guys can come up with something to do wether adoption or keeping it. Good luck!!

-Jenn <3