so my husband wants to have sex but i havnt had sex the entire time i have been pregnant because im scared it will hurt the baby or somthing!
like i want to please him but im to scared somthing will happen and im 6 months pregnant!
2007-06-17 08:23:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
sex is OK until your water breaks. it won't hurt the baby. BUT if you are uncomfortable having sex then you and your hubby need to talk about why. i knew it was OK but i still couldn't bring myself to have sex. after explaining that my hubby was better about it and i felt less pressured to do something i didn't want to do. i did agree to give more b-jobs though so that probably helped too. ;)
good luck!
2007-06-17 08:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by mender_bender2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to worry about the baby, but don't. Unless your doctor has given you some medical reason you shouldn't it's very safe. The baby is protected by alot of fluid and tissue.. don't worry your husband won't poke him in the head or the eye...lol. I have three extremely healthy children and had sex the entire pregnancy with all three. Of course positions and comfort change because of your newfound roundness, but alot of women really like to have sex more because of the increase in blood flow. Plus your muscles get work for the impending delivery and thats always good for the baby and a short delivery time. I actually had sex the morning my son was born... shortly after I went into labor and my water broke. (Then it's not okay to have sex.. after you lose the mucus plug or your water breaks it can cause bacteria or infection because you no longer have that protection) Until then... it's safe as long as your doctor has no medical reason you shouldn't. Hope this is of some help
Unless of course your enjoying torturing your husband...lol... then keep up the good work:)
2007-06-17 08:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by Dusty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I know you want to protect your baby, but there is an amniotic sac in there filled with liquid. What happens when you're in a swimming pool and an earthquake occurs? You just get shaken a little, but the water absorbs most of the pressure and you don't even feel it. That's how it is with baby. There is nothing hubby can do with normal sex play that will harm the baby, and you can continue making love until right before baby is born.
I'm concerned that this baby is already taking first place over your husband. Hubbies need lots of attention, food, sex, etc. whether there's a baby in the house or not. To have a happy family, the basic unit--Mom & Dad have to be a strong foundation--a team. And they have to stay that way regardless of what's happening with kiddo.
2007-06-17 08:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
generally speaking yes it is safe to have sex. There are some cases when it is not, and that is usually in high risk pregnancies. In the eighth and nineth month it can stimulate uterine contractions ( thank God ) but unless you are high risk, there is no harm. You may notice that baby moves quite a bit afterward, but that is normal. If you feel any pain, you should stop however. Have fun! Pregnancy is so natural and is not an "illness" like people tend to think of it as- with all the restrictions and all. If something doesn't feel right you will know. :)
2007-06-17 08:28:07 · answer #4 · answered by ஐ♥Sabine♥ஐ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there are various men obtainable that freak out approximately there significant different whilst they're pregnant. i develop into married to a nurse, who KNEW intercourse could no longer harm the toddler, yet he stated he might in no way forgive himself if something did ensue. each thing went lower back to customary after our daughter develop into born. yet that do sent supply help to whilst your hormones are raging, and pregnant females like it ALOT whilst they're. It hurts our thoughts, it makes us think of we are no longer suitable anymore, and that's a terrible time. shop doing what your doing and maybe he will come around. Watch porn at the same time. And if worse includes worse be grateful we are no longer pregnant for longer than we are. stable luck
2016-10-09 09:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by metrick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wont hurt anything just dont do anything thats uncomfortable...
ur doc will tell u if u cannot have sex due to some medical reason if he/she didnt say No then its safe
if ur still unsure ask ur doc and get approval to ease ur worried mind.
women have sex up to labor some dont b/c they feel bad and some are in pain LOL.
and to the rude ppl some ppl dont have sex b/c of high risk pregnancys... Like me im high risk and im 32 wks and sex isnt everything. So please dont smash her on being afraid or not having sex in 6 months. Its normal
2007-06-17 08:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by Crys 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to have sex during pregnancy. It won't harm the baby at all. Just do whatever position that is most comfortable for you. And unless your DR adviced you not to have sex then you shouldn't!!
2007-06-17 10:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like it, go for it!!
We have been and still are sexually active and I'm 9 months pregnant! You may or may not experience mild contractions afterwards, but this is perfectly normal. Sex will not harm you or your baby, unless you've been advised against it from your practitioner, so enjoy!
2007-06-17 08:31:57 · answer #8 · answered by sara.b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can safely have sex all the way through your pregnancy(unless for some medical or health reason your doctor says otherwise). The last month of pregnancy it will likely be pretty uncomfortable and you won't want to, but until it's too uncomfortable, there's nothing to worry about.
2007-06-17 08:31:03 · answer #9 · answered by Tim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not having a high risk pregnancy or adviced not to have sex go, go and enjoy! Nothing will happen to the baby you yourself might not find it very comfortable is all.
2007-06-17 08:26:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋